[Libra40]

I dated this man for about 4 mts. Our relationship was really intense. We experienced things people take a long time to experience. Unfortunelty he was going through a rough divorce with 4 kids. I on the other hand never experienced a serious relationship where someone actually wanted to love me. I was always in relationships where it was over before it started. Anyway I started not intentially pushing him away. Picking silly things to argue, getting insecure about anything and everything. When all he was doing was showing me that he loved me. Driving an hour to pick me up from work at 2am. Typing 2 page letters to how he was feeling. Took my daughter and I on nice outings etc... anyways I was successful in pushing him away. To the point he was so lost he is now living with a girl he has only known a short time. My counselor feels he is in a rebound relationship. Recoving from his divorce and now me. She says it could be also financial reasons he is living with this women because he did suffer from financial problems. Anyway I do so love him still very much and was wondering if there is a chance down the road we could be together again.

[Guidostern]

That's a hard question to answer, first because only he knows the answer.

This is generally a problem for many who fall for someone that has just came out of a relationship. While you can't make a heart love someone, you may still be able to have him in your life as a friend at some point in the future. To be honest, I would try to move on and regroup.

[talaniman]

You don't want him back, he has to many issues to deal with, and frankly so do you. Heal and regroup, and I hope you've learned something about yourself.