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    Confused65 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 30, 2008, 02:18 AM
    Changing things up!
    Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years and the sex life has gotten routine... I need some ideas to change things up and I'm not very good on coming up with that kind of stuff.. Any Ideas??
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    smoothy Posts: 25,490, Reputation: 2853
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    Dec 30, 2008, 06:36 AM

    Rent some porn flicks... look at the covers in the store and see what rings some bells, then give them a try together. Some will be great others you won't like.
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    Dec 30, 2008, 11:11 AM

    We really need to know what you have already done. I mean, have you tried toys? All the positions? Role-playing? Doing it in risky places? Porn movies?
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    Dec 30, 2008, 03:52 PM

    Try some new positions. Get a karma suttra book. You should also try coming on to him instead of letting him always initiate sex if you are. Also try surprising him with sex. For example:

    When he walks in the door and comes home from work just be waiting for him butt naked. LOL he'll like that.

    Talk more during sex if you don't talk a lot... tell what feels good and what you want him to do.

    These are all things that'll keep your sex life alive.
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    Dec 30, 2008, 10:50 PM

    Go to a nearby large city, spend the weekend at a hotel and go sight seeing and see a drag show-they usually aren't too expensive, a small cover charge and drinks.
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    Dec 31, 2008, 01:18 AM

    Go to
    Sex Tips & Dating Advice

    They have a whole bunch of different sex positions. And they're really fun to try.

    Hope this helps. (:
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    Dec 31, 2008, 11:30 AM

    Experiment on each other, or chat over coffee with your partner about what can be done in your bedroom, garage kitchen... whatever you got, meet him on the porch at midnight... what kind of roof do you have..!

    Use your imaginations.
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    Dec 31, 2008, 11:48 AM

    Discuss your fantasies and see what strikes a chord.

    Role playing is fun and its O.K. to laugh at your role playing. Don't be afraid to make fools of yourselves.

    Sex does not have to be serious and mind blowing to be good.

    A good worn pair of shoes with a nice fit is often better than a new pair that just looks good but pinches your toes! :rolleyes:
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