[Kimsang]

The relationship between I and my girlfriend seem not getting smoth recently. She doesn't care about me a lot, and I feel that she's cold to me. It makes me sad, it's not the same as before when we started. Even a kiss, she doesn't allow now. I'm trying hard to make her feel happy as much as before. Can you advise what do I have to do to make our relationship getting better? Just like before... :o

Thank you,

[shatriya]

Hey dude,
Talk to her about it, you should share your feelings with your partner. Let her know with what phase you are going through, how do you feel about her being cold towards you.
May be you are boring her with the stuff she doesn't like, and she's not telling you because she doesn't want to hurt you.
Relations are like sand, you try to grab it hard, it'll slip away. So just hold it lightly, give her some room. May be she's seeking for some privacy or she's going through some bad time and she's not feeling like sharing it and its killing her from inside.
Advice is, just talk to her.

[sully123]

There is nothing you can do, except let her go. She doesn't seem to be interested in the relationship anymore. As hard as it is, why invest anymore time, think of yourself and meet new friends. You can't change someone, they have to be willing to change,

[kctiger]

Seems to me the writing is on the wall, and you even know that. If talking to her about this doesn't help, then get out NOW. Sucks this time of year, but from what little information you have provided, it seems inevitable.

[411Help]

From the little information you provided, it seems like she lost complete interest. Save yourself your dignity and leave. Initiate no contact.

[slapshot_oi]

It sounds like she's cheating on you.

Sorry.

[talaniman]

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...er-216977.html

You were friends, and workmates, but you wanted more, and she did not, so either be friends and stop acting like a boyfriend, or leave her alone.

Sorry guy but its time to let go.