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    Sep 30, 2008, 08:51 AM
    I am developping feeling for her, but I don't want to ruin the friendship
    I met this new girl about two weeks ago. She goes to my university. I liked her the minutes I laid my eyes on her. We finally met and at first I could feel that the chemistry was there. In fact I think that to some extent it's still is... when we are together, we seem to enjoy each other's company. I had just recently broke it off with this other girl I was dating that I was dating since June... she know about it... and the main part is because of her and because I was not really feeling the same as she was. She wanted a serious relationship, but I didn't... anyway... this new girl and are have been hanging out almost everyday now... she can tell that I kind of like her, but I am not really being too obvious about it... but I'm somewhat fearing that she might be getting to the friends zone, which I really don't want to start cause I like her... but at the same time I don't just want to come out desperate and blant about it... but with everyday that goes by, I like her more... what do I do?? tell her or wait it out and see yet... oh yeah and just another thing. She is really really pretty and she pretty much get hit on by guys on every corner... so there are other guys who are already putting pressure... on her... so I don't just want to come up as just another guy... also, she came out of a 4 years relationship about 3 or 4 months ago... so at time I feel as if she is still is kind of recovering... opinion please??
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    Sep 30, 2008, 12:11 PM

    Its customary to ask a girl out, and see how things go, before assuming what she feels. That's part of the process.
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    Dec 25, 2008, 08:06 PM

    Haha... such an irony guys... I haven't been back here since I wrote that... anyways... the story short.. . our frindship grew.. and we became really good friends. One night I kissed her and we have been going out for almost 3 months... :)... it awsome...
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    Dec 27, 2008, 03:31 PM

    Brilliant. A happy outcome. I wish I had the same luck as you. Maybe my turn will come someday with my 'idol'. Er... tell me: was it quick peck that she then responded too, or a real proper kiss that did it. Don't mean to be nosy, just getting feedback for myself!! Don't reply if you don't want to.

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