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    negative_killer Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 26, 2008, 07:10 AM
    Should We Break Up?
    Well Me And My Girlfriend Have Been Going For About 2 Months Now And She's Starting To Question How Much I Love Her.
    I Do Love Her But I Like Other People Right Now As Well Which Didn't Happen Before.
    Can Someone Please Give Me Some Advice As She Wants Me To Text Her Back With A Reply To The Title.
    Thanks.
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    Dec 26, 2008, 07:17 AM

    I think love is a strong word to be throwing around after only two months of DATING. Seems like now you are starting to realize she is not someone you want to have a relationship with, which is the entire point of courtship (dating to you younger lads).
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    Dec 26, 2008, 07:41 AM

    Yeah break up as you don't sound like you want to stay with her. How old are you??
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    Dec 26, 2008, 08:12 AM
    @ talaniman
    I'm 14
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    Dec 26, 2008, 08:32 AM

    If your not going to be honest, and have fun, or be worried about feelings for others, then why stay, and live a lie, that can hurt someone's feelings?

    So you need to figure out what you want.
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    Dec 26, 2008, 09:00 AM

    Honey, at 14 you aren't ready to be in a serious boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. You aren't ready to be "in love." and only with one girl. Neither is she ready! Take her on dates if you like, but you can take other girls out too! Just don't lie to her about it. Both of you have got plenty of time for more serious relationships when you get older, but now is the time to get to know different people. It's normal at your age to like more than one girl. I would be more worried if you didn't! I sure hope you and this young girl didn't sleep together... did you?
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    Dec 26, 2008, 09:11 AM
    We Did Something's But No Not Sex.
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    Dec 26, 2008, 09:24 AM

    Well, I'm glad that you didn't go that far. Neither of you are ready for that, even if you might think you are. You're just not, and you won't understand why until you are older. You have to be careful. Young girls will take a break-up much harder than young boys do in most cases. If you stay together longer, and you are still interested in other girls, which is normal, the longer you stay together with her, the harder it is going to be for both of you, when you inevitably break-up! Tell her that both of you need to meet more people, have more experiences, do what teens do,. but you can also tell her that you will be there as her friend if she needs you. You are too young to be tied down to one girl right now. Let's face it. This is almost certainly not going to be the same girl you are with when you are 16... 18... 20... and so on.
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    Dec 27, 2008, 04:35 AM

    Thanks All.
    We aren't going out but we're still friends.
    She says that she still likes me but I don't feel the same.
    Can't be helped.
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