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boo_boo_eyes · Dec 16, 2008, 06:26 PM

My boyfriend and I got back together we broke up awhile ago , I never seen him or any other guy try so hard 2 get back with me but now were together he acts like he don't care he don't have to try because he has me... but the other day I went threw his phone and found some texts from a girl who has always liked him clling him babe and telling him she wants o see him what do I do?

Dare81 · Dec 16, 2008, 06:59 PM

When he was trying to get back with you he was on his best behaviour.Now that he has got you things are going back to normal.Did you guyz work on any issue that caused the breakup in the first place? (Problems just don't disappear you have to work on them)

tearingapart · Dec 16, 2008, 07:59 PM

Confront him about the girl.

LifeChangesMan · Dec 16, 2008, 08:16 PM

Hey,

First of all, you got back together? That's good right? Well, my biggest problem with this post is that you shouldn't be going through his phone in my opinion, do you have trust issues with him? Which will lead to more problems in your relationship and, if you just got back together I would not let it get to you about him having these girls contacting him because it's natural for him to talk to other girls while you were apart and, if it continues later on it'll be a problem but hopefully he does the right thing and tells these girls he's involved now, and stop going through his stuff, trust him or get out of the relationship.

Hope this helps,
LCM

talaniman · Dec 16, 2008, 10:14 PM

When the words don't match the action, leave them alone, which you may as well, since your going through his phone. Hard to have a good relationship, with no trust.

neverme · Dec 16, 2008, 10:16 PM

Talaniman is right.

No Trust. No Relationship.

Do not pass Go. Do not collect £200.

kctiger · Dec 17, 2008, 06:42 AM

Did you expect that getting back together was going to be the answer to your problems and that everything would be a dream world? Did you guys ever fix what was wrong in the first place?

Like the others have said, you don't trust him, and so obviously there is a disconnect between the two of you. Can't really have a relationship in that situation. Another clear cut case of two people that broke up, only to get back together and realize once again why the BROKE UP in the first place.