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dkh4863 · Jul 21, 2006, 05:04 AM

Originally Posted by Krs

There you go you see :)
You proved my point. The point i stated earlier about how strong you are.

You passed the first challenge and doesnt it feel good?

I have a big new family of support here to give me the strength not to fall again..
Bless you all

talaniman · Jul 21, 2006, 05:24 AM

:cool: :) ;)

Wildcat21 · Jul 21, 2006, 08:21 AM

Wow -that's so tough. My heart goes out to you. Instead of calling him... vent here. Write it ALL out - that's what it's here for. We will then respond.

Wildcat21 · Jul 21, 2006, 08:23 AM

And unfortuntely - he is still in love with his ex wife - those feelinsg just don't go away. He will ALWAYS run to her.

momincali · Jul 21, 2006, 08:40 AM

"And unfortuntely - he is still in love with his ex wife - those feelinsg just don't go away. He will ALWAYS run to her."

That is sadly very true. He's losing it cause he's losing control over you. Be prepared for more calls, maybe even him coming over with flowers, getting drunk and blaming you for it, you know, all the stupid ex-boyfriend stunts, just remember, stunts aren't real. It's time to move on to something or rather someone that is.

I'd wish you luck, but luck has nothing to do with it!

dkh4863 · Jul 23, 2006, 05:49 AM

WOW! What a hard night last night was. I went to a bachlorett party and we went to a bar and his ex wife was there. Then about 15 min later he showed up. He looked at me and her and had a look like oh sh**.:o to see us both there what was he to do. Who was he running to. Well guess who.. ME! It was so hard to tell him go away ,your ex wife wants you back.Go beat her up a little more like I found uot you did and put her in the hospital. Who told you that.:p I told himits public record. Go to the court house and look it up. His replie... that was a long time agao, you know I would never hurt you.:rolleyes: I said Hunny... You have and don't even know it because its all a game to you and your so use to it you don't even know wha your doing. Have a great life see you.. Then he ran to her and apearently got the same thing from her. He left looking like a lost puppy. It husrt and was so hard. I wanted to be in his arms so bad. I just kept telling myself remember you new friends and all the truth you have learnd from them on the puter. Also remember all the beatings you took for 26 years... no way do I want another beater.
I think I am getting through this.
Thans to you all!
Take care and god bless all my angels here!
Hugs Deb

Cassie · Jul 23, 2006, 05:54 AM

Great! Keep it up. Don't you feel better about yourself? Stronger and so much wiser. You are making decisions as to what is right for you and what will make you happy forever, not just momentarily . Good luck!!

Jay_Jay · Jul 23, 2006, 06:34 AM

Hey very good your making a stand and sticking to it! Just keep up your good works and you will be feeling better each day.

I think I am getting through this

You will get through this and be a stronger person in the end. God bless you and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Skell · Jul 23, 2006, 04:55 PM

YES YES YES.
You are doing AWESOME. I don't get to read the posts over the weekend so I get all of them on a Monday morning. Reading what you have done here has INSPIRED me. You have shown a strength that is beyond belief in my opinion.

And a wonderful thing too that when you felt like calling him you came on here and found strength here. So great to hear that. I wish I had that in my dark times.

And the way you dealt with that situation at the Bachelorette party is simply astonding. What a lesson for everyone on Inner Strength

You are going to make a wonderful lucky man very happy one day and with it will come your own happiness.

Well done.

Wildcat21 · Jul 23, 2006, 05:56 PM

"beat her up a little more like I found uot you did and put her in the hospital. "

Wow - do he really beat her up? Why? For the love of god! Why/ And why woulld she go back to him??

There are some people out there who think the deserve abuse.

Wildcat21 · Jul 23, 2006, 06:00 PM

Just stya away from this loser.

dkh4863 · Jul 23, 2006, 06:38 PM

What a jerm... he just called and left me a voice mail. Hunnny, please please... lets go to dinner and talk.. please.
I am not resopnding.thanks to ya all@ this sight
Hugs

talaniman · Jul 23, 2006, 06:46 PM

:) That sound you hear is applause because you have made a lot of people here very HAPPY.:)

Skell · Jul 23, 2006, 06:47 PM

GOOD. The hide of this guy.
Let him wallow in the crap that he has created for himself.
You have the power. Keep it that way!!
Stay strong. Your doing great!

Skell · Jul 23, 2006, 06:50 PM

Well said Tal,

I am only relatively new here and offer only advice that I can based on my relatively limited expereinces in life so far. But I love reading everyone's post.

You have done great SO FAR, and its nice to know that you think we have played a part in that.
But believe me, you are playing the lead character and so far putting up an oscar winning performance.

Wildcat21 · Jul 23, 2006, 07:17 PM

What a Wuss!! Hahahaha! Begging!! Very attractive!!

See guys - you get to se the other side.

dkh4863 · Jul 26, 2006, 10:11 PM

I took my grandkids to the drive in tonigt and guess who I sw=aw... him yes him.
he was with another girl and her 2 kids.. I looked at himand smilesand shook my head. I got a phone call ont my voie mail when I got home saying... hunny its not what you think. It wasmy cousin and her kids.. hello then why didn't he talk to me. Dah/!! I wasn't born yesterday.
I'm not answering his call
take care hugs

Skell · Jul 26, 2006, 10:15 PM

No don't answer. Don't even acknowledge him. Plus you didn't want him to talk to you at the drive. You want nothing to do with him.

YeloDasy · Jul 27, 2006, 12:54 AM

DKH... I just read all the posts... and I want to say that your actions are such a strength for me! I smiled when I read them all... thank you for posting it all here... and good luck with keeping your strength and your ability to make things better in your life! You know, we usually keep going back th what we know, no matter how sick it is... just because it is comfortable... and the only way not to do that is to break the cycle, and it sounds like you are doing that... YEAH YOU!!

Cassie · Jul 27, 2006, 06:51 AM

Yeah!! NOw you are getting stronger all the time. Your next relationship will not be one of being used. It will be a good one.:) One you deserve.