[confuzzled91]

The last period I had was in November and it only lasted 5days which is usual for me.
Then me and my fiancé had sexual intercourse two weeks later. It is now December 15th and I am 12 days late. My period usually comes the second week of the month. I took a preganancy test last week on Friday and the results were negative. But my period has yet to come. I don't show any symptoms. Oh Before I forget... Usually when my period is about to come I get pre menstrual cramps I have been having cramps but like I said still no period. I plan to take another test at the end of this week. Am I pregnant??

[southerngalps]

If your period comes in the second week of the month and it is only the 15th... how are you 12 days late?

You said you had Novembers right?

Just confused.

[confuzzled91]

I don't know... that is what my aunt had told me...
My last period started nov. 8th and ended nov.12
I am only 18 and I'm scared out of my mind.

[southerngalps]

Okay. Nov 8th would be the start of the second week. So, if your periods are regular, you should have started on the 8th of dec.

So you are now on your 7th day being late.

Wait a few more days, then take another test. That is the only way you will know. Be patient :)

[confuzzled91]

I'm trying but its all so stressful
I want my period to come because I am really focused on college right now.
However the only reason why I am a little frightened is because I know that he did not release inside of me
But he tends to precum and from what I was taught you can still get pregnant from that

[southerngalps]

Yes, but you got to be patient and don't stress over it. If you keep thinking you are pregnant that will delay it even more.

Go about your regular daily activities. Keep your mind off it.

If it helps, take the negative answer as accurate and tell yourself that your period is going to come today.

The mind has complete control over the body. And if you are not pregnant, your mind is playing tricks on you.

[confuzzled91]

Thank you so much
You are not critical or anything
And its strange how I feel connected and I feel a sense of belonging
When I could'nt even get that from the people I thought cared about me
So thank you sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much!!
I appreciate it a lot

[southerngalps]

You're welcome. But for the future. Stay protected if you are not ready to become a parent.

Best of luck! Stay in school!

[confuzzled91]

Thank you
And I most def. Will