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    donthaveaclue Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 13, 2008, 08:04 PM
    She cheated with me, but now gone back to her boyfriend, what should I do now?
    This girl I got really close to cheated on her boyfriend with me and told me she could see herself having a relationship with me. Then suddenly she comes out and says she can't do this and wants to be with her boyfriend and make things right. She told me there is something missing in their relationship and they are more like best friends. What can I do now to make her want to be with me?
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    Dec 13, 2008, 08:14 PM
    You should do nothing to try to get her back. If she cheated on him with you, she will cheat on you with someone else. Sorry, but that's the way it works. Be glad you got out and find someone honest that will be good to you.
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    Dec 13, 2008, 08:15 PM

    Nothing, you have to let go.

    What she did was wrong, what you did was wrong, now you have to let her go. That was the risk you took with this type of relationship.
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    Dec 14, 2008, 06:23 PM

    It is best that you move on and forget about this girl. You shouldn't have even thought anything serious would have happen between the two of you because she was involved with someone already.

    Move on and find someone that isn't involve with anyone and let this girl go.
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    Dec 14, 2008, 06:44 PM

    You never would have been able to trust this girl if you got her anyway.

    Consider yourself lucky that you got off easy on this one. You have saved yourself a lot of heartache and sleepless nights.

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