I'm not familiar with "scene," but I do know about emo.
Bottom line, NEVER change who you are for a girl, a friend, a coach, a relationship, a job, an experience, a thrill. If you feel that you have to change your basic character, then that person/experience is not worth it.
Why couldn't you just be yourself around her? You never know, she may be looking for someone just like you. Don't change to fit in, it never works out.
By changing who you are in order to impress someone, you lose a bit of yourself.
Ask her if she'd like to get a coffee, watch a movie, whatever YOU like to do. You never know... :)
Best of luck.
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