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    coolgal7689 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 4, 2008, 04:21 PM
    My ex is dating my (ex) best friend!
    Okay so I honestly don't know what to do right now.. my ex who I really really loved (he even met my parents and everything right when we met) is now dating my best friend (well were no longer friends because of it) and yeah I don't know what to do. He still calls me every night and eveyrything, and doesn't act like he cares when I really know he does. Is he trying to make me jealous? Oh and by the way this girl looks so similar to me.. blonde hair blue eys.. so yeah I don't know if I should just forget about them both.. or what? Thanks for the help
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    Dec 4, 2008, 05:15 PM

    You shouldn't be talking to either of them, and I don't care how you feel about this goofball.
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    Dec 4, 2008, 05:23 PM

    That goes beyond the friend code in my opinion... you just don't go out with friends ex's..

    There are plenty of guys out in the world and she could choose them.. but she decided to slap you in the face and date him..

    You need to forget both of them and find friends that you can trust..
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    Dec 4, 2008, 05:40 PM

    Niether of them are worth your time. Quit taking calls from them... period. Like Plonak said, there is an unspoken code, you do not date your friends' ex's.
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    Dec 4, 2008, 05:47 PM

    I sort of think it depends you say he is your ex how long ago did you break up? If it was a year ago for example, and you both went your separate ways, and then he and your friend got together, and seem happy I might try being happy for them. On the other hand if if you broke up yesterday and now he is with your friend I would definitely know that they were together while you were together and that I might have a problem with if. However sometimes people fall out of love and it is nobodys "fault"
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    Dec 4, 2008, 05:51 PM

    I disagree with you, vegetable. I don't know the girl code, but in guy code, you NEVER date a friends ex.

    Cut both of them out of your life, you deserve a better boyfriend and a much better friend
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    Dec 4, 2008, 05:55 PM

    Yeah, time is not a factor... period. I know that if one of my friends dated my ex, no matter the time frame given, they would no longer be my friend. PERIOD!
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