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    #1

    Dec 3, 2008, 10:14 PM
    I want an orgasm!
    I haven't had sex before and I have never had an orgasm (I don't think). Im petty sure I would have know if I had one?
    Well I am wondering if there is a way to get an orgasm through masturbating?
    I don't want to have sex yet. But I want to have an orgasm.
    Any advice?
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    Dec 3, 2008, 10:25 PM

    Well it is a good thing that you want to stay a virgin. Keep it that way.

    I had my first orgasm at 15. I used the falling water in the tub. I propped my but up against the end of the tub and so that the running water from the tub faucet was falling right on to my clitoris. It worked better when the water was a tad warm. Not too warm.

    Safest way to get pleasure and keep yourself clean while your at it.

    Remember: it is a commendable thing to want to stay a virgin! ;)
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    Dec 3, 2008, 10:26 PM
    Oh... and the water doesn't need to be strong. I found the lighter the better.
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    Dec 3, 2008, 10:46 PM

    The shower head does the same trick! :)
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    Dec 4, 2008, 04:06 PM

    Explore your body.. touch yourself and keep going on the same spot when it starts to feel really good..

    Yes, you will definitaly know when you get one.. it's the best feeling a human can have..

    Good luck and don't pressure yourself too much
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    Dec 5, 2008, 06:04 PM

    You may be young and too immature at the present time. Don't worry about it.

    I had very negative influences in childhood on my sexuality from religion-Roman Catholic church indoctrination, and from my mother being the daughter of a Victorian woman.

    Then, when I was 21, I had an orgasm in my sleep.

    I knew my efforts to ditch the Catholic indoctrination as harmful had been a battle won!!

    Then, my orgasmic life began.

    You don't know, every woman is different. :)

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