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    Dec 1, 2008, 10:41 AM
    Love but not IN LOVE.
    Okay so we've been married for 2 yrs. As of tomm. Been together for 6.and he just lost his job and I'm the only one working .Also my mother and sisters just moved in because my mom in disabled and my step father just past away . Now you would think since he's not working that he would at least try to spend time with me . And both so in debt but we still get our bills paid . It's getting so bad that I can't even look at him , I feel so bad because he's a good man , and he didn't really do much to deserve this. And I feel like maybe it's just a phase and everything will get better , but I'm just so depressed I feel like my life right now is pretty much pointless.I hate my job , and I hate going home .So do I tell him how I feel ? I think that he can pretty much tell.do I just pack up and leave what about my family ? When I was little I had my life all planned out and it was going to be great , I'm sure what happened because it seems like the complete oppositte. How do I just start over ? I just feel so empty inside . What would you do ?
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    Dec 1, 2008, 10:47 AM

    Your household is in kind of an uproar right now. Sit down with your husband and tell him what you are feeling, ot in an argumentive way though. Let him know that you miss time with him. You two communicating and spending regular time with each other can give you both the strength to get through this difficult time. St up a date night and keep it up.
    Don't ever stop communicating.

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