[maria maria]

Im so in love with him and I know is crazy all of this but I can't helped. He is so passionate and we fit each other I just don't know if he will leave his wife for me honestly I will love that because I love him so much. I can't just said I don't wish that because what I feel is real but I really need to know whar a married man thinks or expect someboy who cheats are not in love. I'm not married and I do believe in love but at this point he still here with me when I show him distance for a while and he still calling me, being there and this time I just sto seeing him for a 6 months and he still sending text messages calling me and I didn't have the courage to reponf because I know for sure I will get him back

[ATYOURSERVICE]

He's using you. He has not shown interest in leaving the wife and if he does, lets say, and you marry... wouldn't you worry he would be doing the same thing to you ?

[talaniman]

Your doing the right thing not responding to this cheater, as all he wanted was a booty call, and a distraction from his home life, which he will never give up, let alone for you, or how you feel.

Why should he buy the cow, when the milk is free, and available.

You deserve better don't you??

[badnonsense]

I don't believe in adultery. Both yourself and him are committing it. You... having engaged in a relationship with him and knowing that he was married, should have known better. You are just as guilty as he is in this circumstance.

[Forever2b]

I hope you like being used.
That's all your going to get from this man.
I feel bad for his wife
And for every person who has to go through deciet and adultery from senseless people like yourself.

[tiffany2852]

First you need to decide what you want, do you want marriage and kids? Do you want the freedom that comes from a casual relationship? If you eventually want this to progress into a real committed relationship let him know. Give him an altumatum, tell him you love him but want a serious relationship. If he says yes give him a time limit to commit, if he says no then let him go. If you decide you are better off with someone else tell him.
You must also consider why he cheated on his wife and whether you think he may cheat on you. Sometimes the wife really isn't as lovely as outsiders want you to believe, decide whether it is her fault or his. Well. Obviously there are other options than infedelity so consider why he chose to be unfaithful. Will he not consider leaving because he has kids or is it because he really loves her? Or was he simply a jackass who wants to have his cake and eat it too. You need to decide what you want and then talk to him. Just take some time to think all options through and decide what is right for you. Good luck and I really hope everything works out for you in the end.

[ZoeMarie]

If you've been dating him for a year and he hasn't left his wife he's not going to. Tell him you made a mistake by being with him and that you've learned you need to find someone that's not married to be with.

It's not even worth giving him an ultimatum because if he's cheating on his wife chances are he will cheat on you too. Ditch this guy.

[babyshooter11]

If he's not willing to leave his wife then you need to leave him because that means that his wife means more to him than you.

[lisa45]

He is not going to leave his wife. Sorry, move on