[nsb]

Hi... Im 29rs old Indian woman,n have a 2 yrs old kid.My husband is a nice guy at home and a caring father but when we go anywhere outside every time... all his attention is on beautiful woman around and he is constantly trying to impress them and he kind of makes me feel ignored.Previously he had this habit of putting his arms on them,or trying to touch them once type of nature but after constant fights he doesn't do that but still Id say he still desires to woo women all the time.
One probable reason I can see is he is smart looking but thinly built (he is 6 feet and weighs 55 kgs) so he could be conscious of that so this way he boosts his ego.Im 5'3 n weigh 53 kgs and Im presentable and have good figure and I think I have a fairly pretty looks too.
I can see that he tries to behave himself better in my presence and win my trust but Im not able to build my trust because I feel he is only getting better in acting.
The other ting that has lost my trust is he would often lie to me that he is working and would go to play snooker most of the times after office..
As I was also working I usually had lot of work due after office and to escape that and to have fun he would lie.
For a while last year he was also in touch as a friend with his Ex Girlfriend who is married and with kids now but after my objection... I believe he has stopped all contact with her.
Please help

[N0help4u]

Many guys like looking at women usually to boost their ego.
But Touching and trying to get their attention is going too far.
Lying about where he is going is definitely wrong.
As long as he is just looking and not dwelling on a girl look at it like a little boy in a candy store seeing all the candy and he takes you home leaving the rest. But it sounds like he is getting away with more so I don't blame you if you are trying to keep close tabs on what he is up to. I think I would tell him that since I can't trust you yes I want to know exactly where you are and who you are with. Sometimes people have to reap what they sow.