[lemanruss58]

Ok, a good friend of mine and I went out a week ago. We had a great time and went back to her place and made out for a while and told each other that we like each other and we'll see how things go. We didn't commit to being in a relationship or anything but we agreed that it was a strong possibility that it would come to that.

So we said we would talk more about it and hang out again soon. I called her a couple days later and left her a message. She didn't respond to that so 3 days later I called Thanksgiving night just to say Hi and wish her a Happy Thanksgiving but she didn't pick up and I was going to leave her a message but her phone said that her mailbox was full so I didn't. That was 3 days ago and I haven't heard from her. Those two times are the only times I have called. So here it is, Sunday, almost a week since our date and I haven't heard from her but I've called her those two times.

I really like this girl and she and I are really good friends, but it just seems odd that she wouldn't call me to talk for a few minutes after I've called her twice. To her defense, she does have two jobs and is a full time college student, but that hasn't stopped her from talking to me(or going out with me) in the past.

So my question is-What should I do. Should I call her again? Wait for her to call me?

[Forever2b]

You never know... she MAY be playing hard to get... I know some girls take it to the extreme level.. My advice is try calling her one more time,
You like her, you want to have something with this girl.. so why not try calling again? What do you have to lose?
If her response is still nothing then maybe cool it for a while until she gets the hint that playing hard to get won't get her too far!

[lemanruss58]

I'm thinking so. I mean, she and I have been really good friends for 5 years, ever since we met in college. And we've flirted with the idea of dating a couple times over the years, but they never came to fruition. This time though we actually talked about it and agreed that it might be a possibility, but its more of a "go with the flow" mentality. I'm perfectly fine with that, all I ask is a little bit more communication from her, that's all. I'll try your advice and I hope it works. If you have any more advice I'd love to hear it. Thank you.

[lemanruss58]

Ok, to update. I called her last night and she didn't pick up so I left a short message. So, is she still playing hard to get maybe? Or something else entirely?

[ZoeMarie]

Sounds interesting. If you left her a short message I would just wait and see if she calls you back. If you guys have been friends for 5 years you know you're going to talk to her again so I wouldn't worry about that but at this point I think I would wait until she calls you. She already knows you're trying to get a hold of her.

[lemanruss58]

Yeah we have been friends for 5 years but we don't see each other a whole lot. But she said that we should see more of each other, this just seems counterintuative to what she said.