[StrawberryGum]

OK So Here it is. I have a boyfriend and I know its love:o
But would it be wrong to have sexual relatonships w/ a condom?:confused:

p.s. I'm 13 and he's 14 I know its young but iu feels right. Help me before I do something stupid!

[smurf69]

You are way 2 young what a lot of young people do is think of sex as a physical experience alone when in fact it is more of a mental experence at your age it should be the last thing on your mind. My little sis is your age and if I found out she was sexually active I would kick her lol but seriously you have loads of time for sex so for now do what your meant to do at your age have fun

[xxariesxx]

ok So Here it is. i have a bf and i know its love:o
but would it be wrong to have sexual relatonships w/ a condom?:confused:

p.s. im 13 and hes 14 i know its young but iu feels right. help me b4 i do something stupid!

You both are WAY too young, period, to even consider it. How long have you been with him? Is he ready to be a daddy? Are you ready to be pregnant? Ready to drop out of school and take care of a baby and lose the rest of your childhood and teen years? You better be. Even with a condom you can get pregnant; the condom can break, it is not full-proof.

You can love someone and not have sex with them until you are both really really ready to be parents. It doesn't matter if it feels right. Be a responsible human being and wait.

Believe me you will regret it if you have sexual relations at your age.

[Curlyben]

Not only would this be wrong, but also ILLEGAL !

[Bonita--]

You're way too young to be having sex. I bet you barely even know what sex is. Trust me I lost my virginty at 15 years old and I regret it so much. I barely remember being 15 I was still a child and I was not ready at all to have sex, even though I thought I was. Believe me when I say you will regret it.

[stevetcg]

Condoms are not 100% effective. Just ask my daughter. Wait until you are ready for THAT responsibility, if for no other reason.

[barbiechick123]

Woah girl, you are way too young, your still a baby... Look, I am sure you nay feel like it's love, but it most likely isn't and trust me people who are IN LOVE don't need to have sex to share that love. I know people who lost it at 14 or 13 and they regret it everyday.. they were way too young, naïve and immature. And truth is you can get an STD or pregnant. I don't think you want to waste your teen years being mommy. Do you?

[Myhearthasgone]

You want to know if it's wrong?
YES it would change your whole life.
Real love? You don't know what you are talking about, trust me! Guys don't even know how to appreciate a girl so how could they love her?
Your life is just beginning.[I know because I'm just a bit bigger than you are.]Don't waste it just like that =]. Believe me. If you need any help I would be glad to be here.

[Alty]

p.s. I'm 13 and he's 14 I know its young but iu feels right. help me b4 i do something stupid!

You said it yourself. Help me before I do something stupid. Deep down you know you aren't ready.

You have the rest of your life ahead of you, why be in such a hurry to grow up?

If it's really love then you can both wait. If he can't, then it's not love.

There's a reason why adults tell kids to wait before having sex, it's because sex has very adult consequences that a teen simply cannot handle. No matter how much protection you use, even if you use 3 types of birth control, there is still the chance of pregnancy and an STD. No method of birth control is 100% effective. You may think it won't happen to you, but that's what all the other teen moms thought.

If you aren't old enough to raise a child, you're not old enough to have sex.

Wait, you won't regret it. :)

[smurf69]

You wanna know if it's wrong?
YES it would change your whole life.
Real love?? You don't know what you are talking about, trust me! Guys don't even know how to appreciate a girl so how could they love her?!
Your life is just beginning.[I know because I'm just a bit bigger than you are.]Don't waste it just like that =]. Believe me. If you need any help I would be glad to be here.

You don't have a clue what you are on about how dare you say men don't know how to appreciate a woman maybe they don't appreciate or respect you because of statements like that. Every woman I have been with has been shown notting but love,respect and equality. So don't you dare stereotype men as users with no respect for girls.such an immature post :mad:

[J_9]

ok So Here it is. i have a bf and i know its love:o
but would it be wrong to have sexual relatonships w/ a condom?:confused:

p.s. im 13 and hes 14 i know its young but iu feels right. help me b4 i do something stupid!

Having sex at your age would be stupid, so don't do it. Your body is not ready for pregnancy yet. You are still growing and your body can't handle a growing baby.

So, to answer your question, yes it would be wrong to have sex... with or without a condom.

[Myhearthasgone]

I said GUYS NOT MEN. How old are you? I didn't mean that all guys are like that but lets face it at 14 years old they all head for sex.

[womaningirl]

I am a teen just like u
I am not ready yet and I don't think u are either
If u think u might be doing something stupid it must be for some reason

U do know that it is illegal at your age
By the way several things that seam right are not

[liz28]

Question Strawberry, what is love? It took me a long time to find out what love is. At your age I thought I was in love but it was all a fantasy until I grew up.

You already been given plenty of reasons not to have sex and if you need more reasons talk to your parents. You should ask your parents if you could have sex and hear what they have to say.

[jennifer1010]

Youree wayy too young! DON'T do it. You even said "help me before i do something stupid"... you have a lot of time to live. Not only is it wrong because you're 13&14, IT IS ILLEGAL! I don't think you're ready to be parents, condoms are not 100% effective, trust me I know people who are 15 and parents because the condom broke... be careful and I'm sorry to say that it probably isn't love.. when you are becoming a teen your amygdula (emotional part of the brain) makes everything a biggger deal than it is..