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    sasha80 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 24, 2008, 06:17 AM
    Am broke inside, my ex hates me with a passion
    Me and my ex boyfriend were together for nearly 2 years, I was his first love, he was crazy about me, we split up, he left me, now he hates me with a passion, when I text him most the time he ignores me, but sometimes he text me saying go doe, I hate you, and I can't understand why, he keeps moving from one girl to another and has completely shut me out, am dying inside, I don't understand, please someone help me
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    Nov 24, 2008, 06:26 AM

    Just leave him alone. People go no contact for this reason. Every time you contact him you get hurt. Quit doing this to yourself, as hard as it is. There is nothing you can do about his behaviour or his feelings. The only thing you can do is control how many times you keep hurting yourself. Some people choose to react differently in a break up, and he seems to be the type that keeps looking for fulfillment in other girls since you are no longer there. That is his problem, not yours.
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    Nov 24, 2008, 07:36 AM

    No contact. Simple. Stay busy and give it time. I find it helps to have things to look forward to e.g. I book lots of holidays/trips etc
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    Nov 24, 2008, 12:15 PM

    Your hoping for something that ain't happening, and should leave him alone, and move on.
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    Nov 24, 2008, 12:19 PM

    Someone has to ask this... is there any reason why he would all of a sudden hate you and do you know that he hates you?? Or are you just concluding that because he isn't responding to you?

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