[ryansgranny]

HI,
I am wanting to get some advice, I have an adult daughter that since my grandson was born 7 years ago, has treated me like crap. She uses my grandson to hurt me, she refuses to let me see him if I do not follow what she wants, I am supposed to go along with everything she says and if I don't she will not let me see him. I have gotten hurt so many times in the past, I am on anti-depressants and have bent over back words trying to please her, all I want is to see him. I am just wanting some advice. Thanks.

[Eileen1218]

Stop bending over back wards for your daughter! You're the Mother and the Grandmother. I would soon find something else to do in MY life . If you let it alone your daughter will probably change her ways with you.. if doesn't then there's not much for you do but, keep on bending over back wards for her in order to see your Grandchild. It's your choice... either be depressed and at your daughter's beckoning call OR make another
Choice. Hope this helped!:)

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes, it is hard, but you tell the daughter, too bad, so long and when you grow up give me a call. She is using blackmail and there is no way get out except to just say NO