[Fredj88]

Blah it's been a few months now since my ex cheated and dumped me, yet I still can't get over being cheated on. I feel unattractive, pathetic, sad angry just a rush of emotions.

Besides killing someone, I honestly feel cheating is the worst thing you can do to someone, I feel like the biggest idiot in the world, how I brought her around my family told her stud I never told anyone only to look like a fool.

I feel so embarrassed I can't even come to terms, and Admit to my family that the real reason were not together is because she was screwing around with some other guy.

[Fr_Chuck]

You are the victim, not the person who did anything wrong,

The cheating has nothing to do with your looks, with you as a person, it has to do with the low morals and poor choices of the other person.

You should pity them for being so sad to do those things.

And embarrassed ? So you tell the trugh and be done with it.

[kctiger]

First things first... her cheating has nothing to do with you. It doesn't make you any less of a person, it just makes her a cheater. The problem is with her and that is the truth. Don't let her poor character make you think less of yourself.

[ZoeMarie]

They said it! The problem isn't you. It's her. She made the choice to cheat and if anyone feels embarrassed it should be her.

[LifeChangesMan]

You should never feel terrible that someone cheated on you, you found out, huge positive, because your not with someone who is trash and you got out of the relationship ASAP, look at it as a positive.

[kctiger]

You being cheated on also doesn't change the fact that she is the one who sucks... not you.