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    Nov 17, 2008, 11:59 AM
    I don't want him back, but.
    I want him to realize how stupid he is. All of the questions I find up here are about wanting him to realize this because the girl wants him back. Well I don't want him back. I'm angry at him and I want him to hurt. I want him to realize how stupid he was and how cruel and to want me back, simply so I can have the pleasure of denying him. I don't care how unhealthy that is, I simply want advice on how to achieve this goal. I KNOW I should just move on and I'm working on it, but I want to have the satisfaction of rejecting him.
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    Nov 17, 2008, 02:21 PM

    Honestly... I don't think you will get any advice on how to make him feel bad, guilty, or whatever. Listen to yourself and just move on. With all the effort, it seems like you would want him back, and you don't want him to think that, right?
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    Nov 17, 2008, 02:24 PM

    Why would you want to waist another second on this guy? You are giving him more power than he deserves.

    It's time to move forward, get over him. Karma is a b*tch, if he's as bad as you say then he'll get his one day.

    Don't spend another minute thinking about him.

    Good luck.
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    Dec 13, 2008, 06:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    Why would you want to waist another second on this guy? You are giving him more power than he deserves.

    It's time to move forward, get over him. Karma is a b*tch, if he's as bad as you say then he'll get his one day.

    Don't spend another minute thinking about him.

    Good luck.
    I tottallyy agree. Karma will come around and he will finally realize what he did, you don't need to worry about that. But what will make you look stronger and the bigger person in the situation, is if you act like what he did to you, didn't hurt you in any possible way. Make it look like it made you stronger, show him you moved on. Let him make his mistakes.
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    Dec 13, 2008, 08:13 PM

    This will leave you basically hurt and empty and it just comes back to you. Best thing to do, move on, act like it does not bother you, and enjoy your life,
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    Dec 13, 2008, 08:17 PM
    Move on and be happy with yourself. When he sees that you are happier without him he will feel bad - maybe. Maybe nothing you could do would make him feel bad. Don't waste a lot of time on it.
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    Dec 13, 2008, 10:29 PM

    Unfortunately you can't control his emotions and there is really no step by step procedure on how to achieve your goal. My advice is to just let it go. And what would it really matter anyway? What your going to have of your life 2 seconds to reject him and say no and then he's going to move on like nothing happened and then what?? To be quite blunt I'm sure that he knows that he's a jerk but he doesn't care. As satisfying as it seems it's probably not going to work out how you planned it..
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    Dec 13, 2008, 11:25 PM

    Make a great life for yourself and someday he will be like I wish I hadn't lost her she really made something of her life.
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    Dec 14, 2008, 12:00 AM

    Living well is the best revenge.
    --George Herbert, English clergyman & metaphysical poet (1593 - 1633)
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