[THEpurplepeanut]

Okay so there's this boy I went out with a few month ago. I broke up with him because he was going into high school, I was going into eight grade (I'm almost 14 and he just turned 15 ;) Well any way I broke up with him and I still like him. So a few days ago I called him because I wanted to know if he still felt the same way about me as I did about him. Well I found out he still likes me A LOT and I like him A LOT. We talked for a while and we both avoided the subject of going back out. I want to ask him out but I just called him this week and I want to give him some time to think about this whole thing. Plus I was afraid to ask if he had another girlfriend.OOOPS silly me forgot to tell you he is my brother's friend. One detail you can't forget! :p I NEED HELP!! I'M ONLY 13 AND I'M IN THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIP TROUBLE!! Oh yea my parents and brother don't know about this whole thing either. WHAT SHOULD I DO?! :confused:

[PrincessChu-chi1312]

Umm! I think you should call him up and talk to him about a subject and then ask him if he's got a girlfriend and then talk about something else. And then just ask questions about dateing and then change the subject so he knows that you want to date him. And he might get the hit to ask you back out. Good Luck Girl!and hint I think you should not tell your parents your dateing till you know your ready, or until you know your in love or when your old enough! ;)

[jodj]

If you like him as much as you say you do, then call him. Who cares if he's going into high school? It's no biggy. Take it from an older woman, no relationship works unless your willing to take risks. If you bail out at the first sign of trouble, trust me you will never have a relationship work. Though you are still young, so don't let yourself feel tied down k?
Hope I was a help
Good luck hunni
Xx

[THEpurplepeanut]

This is still about this same subject about me liking this guy and him liking me back after I broke up with him because he is like a year and a half older and my friends were like totally not leaving us alone to talk and get to know each other better, he is also my brother's friend and my dad is really protective of me and I don't know how he would react to me having a boyfriend who is older. We both like each other a lot. Idk if I should call twice in the same week kind of seems stalker-ish. I am nervous about talking to him again it took me a while just to tell him I still liked him. What should I say if I were going to ask him back out and how would I ask if he has a girlfriend already. How should I break the ice?:confused: Please help I know I already posted a question like this but I didn't put it all down. I just need someone to help me with this! I feel like my friends are pressuring me to call and to tell them what happened. I don't like to be mean and I don't know how to tell them I need some air to breath without being mean. Yeah but the whole boyfriend thing is really bothering me. He told me he still likes me and I know I like him and I don't know how to ask him out over the phone without sounding desperate. PLEASE HELP!! :)

[THEpurplepeanut]

I REALLY NEED SOME HELP!! Okay there's this guy that's in 9th grade that really likes me a lot and I'm in 8th grade and I really like him a lot too. He is like a year and a half older than me and he's my brother's friend. Is it okay if I call him twice in the same week?!?Would it seem stalker-ish?!? I called him Tuesday to get this whole thing off my chest. Ya know the whole "I like you do you like me too?" thing. Well I got an unexpected answer, he does like me a lot. I thought that was weird considering I broke up with him like 7 months ago (it took me a while to tell him I still like him:D). Do you think it would be better to wait until I get to high school or would it be okay to ask him back out now? Well I'm half way through the school year so would it be okay to ask him out?!? :confused: Or should we just be "friends" (hehehe:p) until I get to high school? PLEASE HELP:eek:

[chuff]

Wait until high school.