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    mcmillett Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 14, 2008, 10:19 AM
    Should I walk away from a 15 year relationship
    Should I walk away from a 15 year relationship
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    Nov 14, 2008, 11:09 AM

    Amazing.. just amazing..
    What typ of a question is this

    Honestly I mean how are we suppose to know what is going on with you. If you don't tell us any details :)

    Why do you want to walk away from the relationship?

    What problems have you gotten into?


    The key word here is DETAILS yes?


    Thank you
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    Nov 14, 2008, 11:42 AM
    I am in a ss relationship and I don't trust her. There have been numerous times that she has lied to me about important things and now she expects me to trust her.

    We have recently become friends with a married couple, the wife is very needy and plays head games and hints at things and my GF thinks that I need to play those games and guess what our friend wants, Well I don't work that way!

    My GF has been going and doing for our friend every day, taking her kids to dance, tending, soccer etc. there seems to be no more space in her life for me. Our friends husband works 2 jobs because of all of the extras that the kids want.

    I am having HUGE jealousy issues with this new relationship, worries that this new friend is going to appeal more to her than I do and that she is going to leave, so do I have control over the situation and leave before I feel hurt by things that the friend is saying about "how rotten I am" when she has NO IDEA who I really am or what our relationship is really about? Oh and no one knows that we are in a SS relationship, we are "just roommates"
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    Nov 14, 2008, 01:19 PM

    You have been together for 15 YEARS and you have jealousy issues? I don't get it... was everything dandy up until now?
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    Nov 14, 2008, 02:26 PM

    You have been together for 15 years.. I mean that is a long time

    You should know each other so well by now..

    I would sit her down and talk to her about how this is making you feel. And how you don't like playing games
    .

    Try and work on your issues as well.

    But other than that. I think talking is your best option
    Try and work things out

    Best of luck

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