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    random_chick Posts: 66, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 14, 2008, 06:37 AM
    Am I stupid thinking about losing it at my age
    I am 14, nearlly 15. And I'm thinking of losing my virginity. But nly with this guy I like. Do you think I would be stupid losing it at this age
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    Nov 14, 2008, 06:51 AM

    Hi, random_chick!

    I don't think that you'd be stupid, but I do think that you'd be making a bad choice.

    What's the rush to have sex anyway? Should you become pregnant, are you prepared to have a baby, care for and provide for a baby and able to do the things that you'd like to do for yourself because of having made the choice to have sex with the possibility that you might become pregnant?

    Best to be waiting to have sex, in my opinion. There's much more to life than having sex. How about concentrating on your education so that you can be the best person that you can for you and also for others so that you might someday be able to excel at a career for yourself and for the person that you might eventually choose for a life partner?

    Another thing to consider, is that the man you might eventually really want to consider for a life partner someday, some years down the road, probably would really appreciate it if you'd saved yourself for that one, special person.

    I'm sure that others will also be along to address your question.

    Thanks!
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    Nov 14, 2008, 06:52 AM

    OK thank you
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    Nov 14, 2008, 07:09 AM

    One should engage in sexual intercourse ONLY if they are physically, emotionally and financially ready to have a child. At 15 you don't qualify in any of those.
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    Nov 14, 2008, 07:44 AM

    Please do take experienced opinions here to heart, random_chick! We do care about you and your future here!

    Thanks!
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