[Bonita--]

When I have sex with my boyfriend, if I'm really worked up and he goes deep inside, it feels amazing but I get a prickly feeling in my hands and all down my arms and in my teeth, like the feeling you get when your hands fall asleep :confused: Is this normal? It doesn't happen every time, and when we have sex it feels really good and it's not painful at all, but I don't know why I get these feelings.

[linnealand]

Is he squashing your body?

Does this happen in all positions?

[Bonita--]

is he squashing your body?

does this happen in all positions?

No it happens in any position. Sometimes when he's ontop he's squishing me a bit but other times it happens when he's not even ontop of me.

[Xrayman]

Do you have a neck/upper spinal injury?

[Bonita--]

do you have a neck/upper spinal injury?

Nope, I've never had any problems with my neck or back. However, I thought about it and when I got this feeling I was either having my back bent in a weird way or I was putting weight on my hands, so maybe that has something to do with it. I just got concerned because I asked a couple of my friends if it ever happened to them and they all said no so I was worried it was something bad.

[Justwantfair]

Is it the beginning of your orgasm? Have you had an orgasm with him?

[Bonita--]

Is it the beginning of your orgasm? Have you had an orgasm with him?

I don't know what it feels like to have an orgasm from sex, so I don't know if that's what it is. I start to feel really good before it happens, my body tenses up and I start to get louder but I don't know if I'm having an orgasm or not :confused:

[Justwantfair]

I think that it is a better bet that you are on the verge of an orgasm... next time it happens relax and go with the feeling.

[Bonita--]

I think that it is a better bet that you are on the verge of an orgasm... next time it happens relax and go with the feeling.

I hope that's what it is lol. I think it's either that, or the way my back is positioned. I wish I could go with the feeling but my boyfriend always finishes right when it's happening, so I don't get to finish. Is there any other way to know if I'm having an orgasm?

[KISS]

Have him finish you off orally. That should work.

You'll know when you have an orgasm. Not all women have the same symptoms or kind of orgasm.

[Justwantfair]

I think you summed it up when you said he ends up finishing first. Just keep trying you will work out the timing, another option until you get the timing better, keep yourself quiet, even though you are enjoying the hell out of it. A loud, moaning woman can always send a man over the top. Go back to being loud when you can control your orgasm better.

[Bonita--]

Have him finish you off orally. That should work.

You'll know when you have an orgasm. Not all women have the same symptoms or kind of orgasm.

Oh I see. Yea we do that sometimes but I would prefer he lasted longer lol. I know how it feels to have a clitoral orgasm but I don't know how it feels to have one from sex. I guess when it happens I'll know. Thank you for your advice.

[Bonita--]

I think you summed it up when you said he ends up finishing first. Just keep trying you will work out the timing, another option until you get the timing better, keep yourself quiet, even though you are enjoying the hell out of it. A loud, moaning woman can always send a man over the top. Go back to being loud when you can control your orgasm better.

You're right I think that's what makes him lose it. I start to get very loud and he can't hold it anymore. It's hard to hold it in though I don't know if I can but I'll try lol. I just hope it's an orgasm I'm having and it's not something to do with my back, because I'll be really happy if I get to have an orgasm lol. Thank you for your advice.

[KISS]

Well, you can have too many of them too. But, that's a different problem.

There are different ways that the female will respond to an orgasm, but I can assure you you won't be able to stop it once it starts. The most common appears to be few vaginal contractions or just one. Waves of multiple contractions are possible as well as entire body responses.

[Bonita--]

Well, you can have too many of them too. But, that's a different problem.

There are different ways that the female will respond to an orgasm, but I can assure you you won't be able to stop it once it starts. The most common appears to be few vaginal contractions or just one. Waves of multiple contractions are possible as well as entire body responses.

See with me, it's always contracting like from when he starts to go inside me. It squeezes on him the whole time. He said when I start to get loud(the tingling feeling happens after that) it squeezes really hard and lets go, so maybe I am having an orgasm.

[KISS]

Yep, that's one. The tingly feeling is the feel good all over feeling. You might be able to go further because evidently you feel your not finished yet.

Relax. Let it happen.

[neverme]

DIY!!
Bring yourself to orgasm, either alone or with him there, then you'll know when your having one:D

[curiouscouple]

Wow lady, my wife and I are having a similar situation. She says it's a pins n needles sort of feeling in her legs down to her feet. She even said she felt like crying because sex was so good and that she has never felt these feelings before during intercourse. She does often complain that the sex is too intense and she doesn't know what's going to happen so she stops and she gets weak. She says I make her bones weak. Is that a problem or is she like about to have an amazing orgasm. She orgasms sometimes but she says the feeling is only felt on her clitoris, she says that she has never in her life had THIS feeling and never came with someone inside her. So we're assuming that she has never had a vaginal orgasm before.