[ilovethewoman]

So when ever I try to ask one of the ladies out in my high school they say I'm attractive but I don't say the right words to them please help!

[kraussnumber2]

Well what are you saying to them? Im not sure what you are asking them already but just say something like "i was wondering if you would like to go ______ with me sometime" or like this weekend or something like that. Maybe it is not what you are saying when you actually ask them out but what you are saying when you are just talking to them in class or in the hallway.

[jjwoodhull]

It's normal to feel nervous when you first start dating. Maybe you should invite girls to do group activities for now. It will give you a chance to get to know each other better without so much pressure.

[ISneezeFunny]

First of all, you got to understand, the "right words" don't exist. It's all about who you are.

For instance, my best friend met his girlfriend while he talked about lovey dovey things and talked about God (they're both ministers).

I've met plenty of girls and the conversation always varies, depending on the job (mine and hers), classes/majors (mine and hers), and the type of person the girl is.

I've worked in the morgue, and some girls find that really fascinating, while others can't hold their dinner. So I vary.

I've also worked in the OR, again, some girls find that really fascinating, others hear the word "blood" and they faint. So I vary.

It's all about who you are and who the girl is. Be flexible.

Relax, be yourself, and you'll be just fine.

[talaniman]

Talaniman rule- Don't just ask any one out. Just the ones you like.

[ilovethewoman]

Ok your peoples are really good at giving advise thanks!

[LifeChangesMan]

Don't try to impress, just be you.