[starbuck8]

I don't think it matters if you are a guy or a girl really. Everyone likes to get pampered, and wants that special attention. It's maybe not something the guys would want to tell all of their buddies while watching football on the wkd. but they love it. You know you guys do! Don't try and tell me you don't! ;)

[kctiger]

It ain't cheesy... it is awesome. If a girl did that for me I would be extremely grateful. Chivalry is just dead to some people (and yes, chivalry can go both ways)

[linnealand]

It is a little cheesy. You should use that advertisement on myspace.com! Many people get hooked into scams on myspace.

Er, I thought I'd begin with a light clarification: for those of you who were wondering what the above post was about, it looks like another newbie thought the advertisement, "Why Is Your Stomach Fat?" was the actual question. Whoops. Every now and then a new member will get a little lost in the AMHD woods. It's easy enough, I suppose, especially if one isn't terribly familiar with the site. Still, it gives me the giggles every time... :D

Niptuck, what's really going to shine is the gesture of doing something so sweet and so thoughtful for your guy. Plus, the fact that most of these gestures will be done *naked* should pretty much guarantee success for you. :) I love the ideas.

As a side note, I think the difference between cheesy and not at all cheesy is often all in the style in which you do it. Having a natural attitude about each step might the best way to go, let's say, even in something as simple as opening a bottle of champagne.

You're going to be winning some big, gold stars in this guy's book, let me tell you... just have fun and enjoy it!