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    niptuckfan88 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Nov 10, 2008, 07:33 AM
    Is this too cheesy?
    I want to do something really romantic for my man,I want to light candles,play our song,cook his favorite meal,make a trail of hershey kisses,make him a hot bubble bath,put a rose or rose petals on the bed,have strawberries dipped in chocolate,and have champagne.is this too cheesy?oh also have his fave dessert.
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    Nov 10, 2008, 07:35 AM

    I would take it... good idea to me. If I was in a relationship I wouldn't have a problem with this.
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    Nov 10, 2008, 03:39 PM
    Men LOVE special attention... so anything you do that's out of the ordinary, (especially since your in a long distance relationship) will have a good outcome... making yourself vulnerable with a "cheesy date" is why he'll love it... because your not afraid to be yourself and show him how much you care...


    Hope that helps :)
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    Nov 10, 2008, 03:50 PM

    Since when is it cheesy to be romantic?? I guess being creative and romantic is too much these days
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    Nov 10, 2008, 04:58 PM

    Dude that sounds AWESOME!

    Chessy hell no!

    Thoughtful and caring? Hell yes

    He is a lucky man :)

    Good luck and go for it
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    Nov 10, 2008, 06:45 PM

    I agree with someone who already posted guys love anything out of the ordinary attentionwise. You could have just surprised him with the dinner and he would be thrilled I say go for it.
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    #7

    Nov 10, 2008, 08:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by niptuckfan88 View Post
    i wanna do something really romantic for my man,i wanna light candles,play our song,cook his favorite meal,make a trail of hershey kisses,make him a hot bubble bath,put a rose or rose petals on the bed,have strawberries dipped in chocolate,and have champagne.is this too cheesy?oh also have his fave dessert.
    They love it, although sometimes won't admit it. Want some more idea's? Put out a picnic blanket on the living room floor, and have the candles surrounding you on the coffee table etc. either eat the meal there, or have champagne and dessert there, warm a bottle of scented massage oil, leave sexy short notes in places he will go when he comes home (bathroom, bedroom, garage or even on the front door when he gets there etc) , have the petals in the bubble bath... the rose on the pillow, and some sexy lingerie hanging on the bathroom or bedroom door knob with a note, make a CD of not only your song, but other songs that you both like, ask him to dance, have something you call a "surprise box" and put things in there like feathers, the massage oil, whatever you can think of, and number them, and tell him to pic a # between one and..? Tell him he has to lay face down, and guess what it is.

    So many idea's... so little time... LOL! But hey, it worked for me! ;) Have fun! :)
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    Nov 10, 2008, 09:25 PM

    If things don't work out between you two than give me a call!! ;)

    I found myself trying to do stuff like this in my last relationship... I would have been ecstatic if my ex came even remotely close to doing something like this for me.

    He's a lucky guy... and I'm sure he'll dig it.
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    #9

    Nov 10, 2008, 09:29 PM

    How you doing? Hahahaha! Jokin with you!
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    Nov 10, 2008, 09:34 PM

    Had to spread the rep Starbs but the picnic and massage oil idea... I just might have to steal that one from you this weekend :)
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    Nov 10, 2008, 10:06 PM
    Sounds like a good idea. I'll let you know how it works. You didn't say what to do with the cheese!
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    Nov 10, 2008, 10:30 PM

    Oh I will Starby, I love the OP's idea- I don't know any man that doesn't love attention from his lady
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    #13

    Nov 10, 2008, 10:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by niptuckfan88 View Post
    i wanna do something really romantic for my man,i wanna light candles,play our song,cook his favorite meal,make a trail of hershey kisses,make him a hot bubble bath,put a rose or rose petals on the bed,have strawberries dipped in chocolate,and have champagne.is this too cheesy?oh also have his fave dessert.
    Depends on the man. Some will love it, others find it pretty strange... I would see it as overkill, LOL... but would be appreciative of the effort.
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    #14

    Nov 10, 2008, 11:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Sounds like a good idea. I'll let you know how it works. You didn't say what to do with the cheese!
    You might be on to something there Tal! ;)
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    Nov 11, 2008, 02:37 AM

    I think it sounds great! The only thing I would say is maybe not so many flowers... that is definitely more of a girlie thing... but one of my friends covered her boyfriends car with flowers one time and he loved it. It is always fun for a guy or a girl to come home to a surprise like this cause it shows how much you were thinking abou them while they were gone... especially when you incorporate things that they like. Hope it turns out great!
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    #16

    Nov 11, 2008, 06:59 AM

    I like peanut butter cups rather than hershey's kisses... can you do peanut butter cups instead?
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    #17

    Nov 11, 2008, 08:15 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by kctiger View Post
    I like peanut butter cups rather than hershey's kisses...can you do peanut butter cups instead??
    Is that a hint? Do you have a little sumpin sumpin going on with the OP? ;) LOL!
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    Nov 11, 2008, 08:27 AM

    Just throwing it out there for any ladies that feel the need to do this for me... j/k
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    #19

    Nov 11, 2008, 08:34 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by kctiger View Post
    Just throwin it out there for any ladies that feel the need to do this for me... j/k
    I like peanut butter cups! In fact I dug them out of my Halloween candy before I handed the rest out. Them kids weren't getting my PB cups. I'll put them out, just follow the trail. LOL! That was shameless wasn't it? LOL! ;) :D (okay, I'll stop now, we're off topic, lol)
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    #20

    Nov 11, 2008, 08:47 AM
    [I]Yeah it's a little cheesy but if I were a man I would love it

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