[imagine43]

My husband has fallen out of love with me. How do I get him to fall back in love with me?

[Kati-Katt]

You need more details to be able to answer a depp question like that.

[JBeaucaire]

Simple answer... study him. You've most likely done what most married couples do after getting married... you stopped learning about each other and stopped "courting" one another.

Remember when you were dating? You said things solely to make him feel good. You built him up. You went out of your way to find good things in him and around him to compliment him. The more you complimented and admired him to his face, the more he wanted to to be around you.

Then you got him. Then you stopped.

So, go back into "courting" mode. Treat him like an honored guest in your home, like someone who deserves your best behavior at all times, not the normal nagging thing we married fold so frequently throw at each other.

Check in on him a few times a week in the middle of the day to just say "Hi, I'm thinking about you...and about the way you ________."

I know he probably needs to change, too, but you can do this in the meantime to get the ball rolling.

If you will go into your profile and enable private messages or add an email address, I will forward some reading material suggestions.

Put another post in this thread when you've done that.