[brokenheart1991]

Im 17 years old and when i was 16 i started goin out wit this boy name ronald now we was so happy and i fell so deep in love wit him and he loved me so much then after awhile things started to fall apart we had broke up but we still talked everyday and everynight on the phone and on the computer we told each other dat we loved each other and everything he told me we would get bac together and everything he only needed sum time to get his school work together but then waitin for him i started to hurt more and more so i just told him 2 call me when he was ready for a relationship and that killed me so much but it had to be done.after a month i started goin out with a boy name nelson and i was so happy wit him ..4 or 5 months went by and all the sudden ronald wrote me on myspace and said how we needed to talk now wen i got that message my heart and my face jus lighted up because i never stopped loving him he was my world..now we had this conversation and he was tellin me that he wanted to be with me again and it was hard for me because i was with nelson but i broke up with nelson and countine talkin to ronald a month or 2 went by and he still never asked me to be his girlfriend again and i stayed waiting like i did last time and i told him he had to choose again and afta awhile i went on his myspace and he had a girlfriend and he broke my heart again but i still wanna be with him and i love him to death do i tell him or wat..IDK WAT TO DO I LOVE HIM TO DEATH AND I WANT HIM TO B MINE AGAIN WAT DO I DO HELP!!:(:confused:

[cissy0801]

To be honest, firstly, I don't think you should've dated Nelson when you were in deeply in love with Ronald. Because you'd be hurting Nelson's feelings.

But I think that you should just leave Ronald. From what you have written, I think he's a player and when he did tell you he wanted to be with you again, I think that was when he was feeling insecure and not "whole" and knew that you'd be still loving him. I know that maybe breaking off your relationship with him is very hard but I suggest you talk to him face to face rather than on "myspace".

I do think you should stop waiting for him and move on. Life is TOO short to wait and I think it is a lesson learnt that if he broke your heart once it would be most likely that he would do it again.

I might sound a bit harsh :p but I reckon you should just think about your feelings and think to yourself after ALL those things he has done to you, do you still love him.

The choice is really up to you and I'm here to give advice and not make the decision for you:) all I have to say is that what ever decision you make don't regret it :)

[liz28]

Ronald is no good for you and you need to figure that out sooner than later. He has a girlfriend so that should make you want to move on.

Love, what exactly do you love about him? You should love yourself more and move on. Love is good when the person you love loves you back. It is obivious that this guy doesn't loves you and if anything giving you false hope and your still holding on to this hope.

It is time to let go and by letting go it would be in your best interest if you stay out of contact with him. You can't get someone back that don't want you back and you shouldn't want him back because you deserve someone that wants you and who is going cherish you and treat you right.

[monni89]

Broken heart I am 16 and I had my heart broken 2 n unfortunately I still love him also... sometimes boys confuses us, they pop up, lead us on and then when were ready 2 take the next step they want 2 act lost. Ronald told you he loved u, but yet he betrayed u. Maybe he does love u, but is trying to be a player, wit the girl but see love is a strong vocabulary, if you love him a lot ask him why? What was his motive, and if he can't answer then you will have your answer. And as for Nelson I feel kind of bad, but see, that's just it we love them they hurt us, but their selfish they don't want us yet they don't want no one else to have us. Write him on myspace ask him it's the only way to have closure. But see I want u 2 ask yourself this How could I break someone's heart to run to someone who once broken my heart. But I've done that 2, my ex would always pop up on the scene I guess 2 never be forgotten. You sound so sweet and innocent how the hell could he do anything 2 even try to harm your heart rather than loving it 2 death. Just tell him how you feel about the situation. I know your upset tell him, but if he gives you bull response you know he's just not worth it... Usually people tell us 2 move on, but you can't until you tell him how you feel even if you may have to black out so be it! Hes needs 2 know he's wrong! Please write me bak