[autyleanne89]

My boyfriend has 2 counts of simple assault and 2 counts of endangering the welfare of a child. He was currantly caught with a possion of a firearm but was not a threat with it to a human being, he was using it for small game hunting and has his hunting license. He was also turned into his PO for asking a 15yr old girl for"pictures" and he is 20 yrs old. What are his possible charges now??

[atreyusmommy104]

Why are u with a man who wants pics of a 15 yr old?

[autyleanne89]

I'm not sure how to answer that one for you. I guess I am blind to the things he does considering how in love with him I WAS and we just had a baby together on the 20th of October

[atreyusmommy104]

Sweetheart I've been there and I'm not joking how close to that situatuion I have been. But I'm telling you now he could go to jail and would you like your baby to have a realationship like yours?

[autyleanne89]

No I wouldn't want my child to have a relationship like mine. What I think about his father and what he will think about his father might be 2 completely different things. I'm not going to put things in my child's head that will make him not want to be with his father. His opion of his father is all that matters.

[atreyusmommy104]

True but you would feel horrible if your son turned out the same. I know I would. I have a 1 yr old and my husband is getting help. We are even in marriage counseling to help. Kids learn by example not by what they hear. So if he is doing you wrong wise up for that baby sweetheart even as hard as it can be. I have left my husband a few times yes bad I know but it was for the better it was so he would get his together and he did.

[autyleanne89]

I was actually the one that turned him in for everything. He messed around on me the whole time I was pregnant and I put up with it and let him walk all over me and kept giving him chances. On Tuesday night he went to a friends house to stay the night and this one girl wasn't supposed to be there and she was. After he left I got suspisious and signed on to his AIM and clicked on her screen name and their conversation popped up about what they were going to do that night. After I saw it I called him and told him that he could just go back to his dads in the morning and he asked why so I told him maybe he should change his passwords and he hung up on me. I even called back 5 minutes later and they wouldn't pick up my phone calls so I left I message telling him to call me back. Well he didn't call at all that night not even to check in to see how our son was doing. So the next morning I called his PO because I wasn't going to put up with it anymore. And now he's sitting in jail.

[atreyusmommy104]

I'm sorry that all happened to you and trust me when I say this I pretty much dealt with the same stuff. But there's a point where you got to just give up on them until they can fix themselves. You have a child to worry about now and as long as you guys are safe that's all that matters. Because for your son to be happy you need to be happy.

[autyleanne89]

I just want it to be a wake up call for him and for him to be changed when he comes back home. I really want to know that what might happen to him with like how long he'll be gone and stuff so I know if I should wait for him to see if he changed or move on. Because I want things to work out in the end and maybe be together and have a family.

[Fr_Chuck]

A felon with a gun is a serious offense, ( I will assume at least one of his other charges was.)

Are they turning it over to the FEDS or are they keepig it under state law?

With the feds a felon with a gun is a min of 5 years in prison, most likely a 20 year sentence and allowed out at 5 years on parole. That is almost standard if they charge him by the Feds.

From state still expect at least 2 to 5 years in prison on just the gun.

Ok, on the relationship, start thinking about the baby, move on and get over from this sort of man, worst thing you could do is stay with this sort of man.

[atreyusmommy104]

I understand completely don't move on but don't wait if that makes sense. Live it day by day

[autyleanne89]

It kind of makes sense. It would be hard to move on so quick anyway. And its like I'm going to go to anyone else anytime so because I'm going to need lots of time to get over this. I just want to see what things are like when he comes home before I would actually move on with my life.

[preciousp]

I have a falon and I won't to become a nurse is there any state where I can get my licence.

[legal matters]

Felony possession of a firearm if picked up by the Feds is a mandatory 15 year sentence.