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    the boss Posts: 25, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Nov 1, 2008, 07:59 PM
    I'm not sure what I did wrong.
    OK well I told my girlfriend don't ask me to do stuff that's she's not willing to do for me. And she got very upset and I dontunderstand why or what I did wrong:confused:
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    #2

    Nov 1, 2008, 08:02 PM

    it may have been the way you said it. it also depends on the situation
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    #3

    Nov 1, 2008, 08:03 PM

    We need more information than that.
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    #4

    Nov 1, 2008, 08:05 PM

    Atrey is right it could be the way you said it... I was taught how to say F you in a sweet way and a harsh way...
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    #5

    Nov 1, 2008, 08:47 PM

    Its not what you say

    Its how you say it.


    Please give us more info
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    Nov 2, 2008, 04:12 PM

    Yea I did say it kind of mean because I was frustrate. Well basically what happens between us issmall things like when were on the phone sometimes I will be text msging in while in talking to her and she told me that" it is rude to call and txt in there ear" so I agreed with her. But then when the situation is reversed and its her txting in my ear and I asked her nicely to stop sahe told me to quit complaining. Stuff like this has been happening for about a month now so finally when something happened resently I said "do not ask me to do what you are not willing to do for me" and she said OK but I could tell she was mad
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    #7

    Nov 2, 2008, 04:15 PM

    So... what exactly is the problem here? You guys are having problems over small stupid stuff... you want to know why? Cause it seems to me your communication SUCKS!! Instead of telling each other what irritates you while it is happening (and your emotions are up), why don't you sit down and talk it out without anyone's emotions being fired up? Dinner anyone?
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    Nov 2, 2008, 04:21 PM

    Hahaha well that makes plenty of sense. Yesterday I found out that my gradparents have been married for 55 years and the said that a strong relationship needs 100% honesty and100% communication. I told my girlfriend last night that are communication about certin things suck! Ans she replied no it does its just some times she don't feel like talking. And I tried to sit her down and talk about these things but I'm not always sure she cares
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    #9

    Nov 2, 2008, 04:23 PM

    Just give it time bro! A LOT of relationships fail due to lack of communication. Be patient and work through it. And hey ,if she isn't down to work on things, then her loss... right?
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    Nov 2, 2008, 04:25 PM

    Yea your right thanks for the advice.
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