[atreyusmommy104]

Hi I am 20 and new to this site and hoping i can get a little advice. I had my son Oct 4 2007 and 3 days later they gave me the depo shot.(Big Regret) I bled constantly for a few months and when i had insurance i did seek help from a doctor and she told me it was normal. i started to have a normal period and then a few months later i started a week early and had my period at the beg of the month and then again starting the second to last week of the month. i spotted then bled for 7 days and spotted again. it happened the month after that and then again this month except for now im having brown discharge. Also between periods i have the worst cramps ever. Before my child i had normal periods and never bled for more then 5 days or even spotted. Please help me.

[roshelle24]

WHAT DO I do if my period is 4 day late and I see brown then turn red what should I do

[atreyusmommy104]

From my personal experience... give it a few days see what it does, take a pregnancy test and go from there.

[Kezie]

Ok , Well i had sex with too diffrent guys one on friday on one on satuday moring , Now my vagina hurts when i pee , and when i pee redy plusy stuff comes out , it hurts and its fully weird . please help

[atreyusmommy104]

Kezie hun you REALLY need to go to the doctor.

[Kezie]

Thanks , But im 13 . I Live with my Grandma
she only thinks ive had sex once . whats she going to say , i waz drunk . But we used protection both times ?

[atreyusmommy104]

Sweetheart your 13 I wouldn't advise haviing sex at your age because you aren't physically or emotionally stable for the consequences. I lost my virginity at thirteen and didn't have sex again until I was 16. Just be honset with your grandma that's all you can do. And also why are you drinking. I'm 20 and I don't even drink.

[atreyusmommy104]

You could have a serious problem wouldn't you rather fix the problem and be honest with your grandma then to lie and have something bad happen

[Kezie]

Well i have an older sister whos 17 with fake idee , she buys it for us . and i dont even enjoy sex at all , i just lay there . ive only had it four times, four diffrent people
i think i want to tell my grandma , she would understand or i could go see the health nurxe at school , shes amazing :) i Dont want to die . i have one ov those test things before , they are weird they get a swab thing and stick it up you , Thank you so much for you hepl . your truely a great person . you help evryone with there problems :)

[atreyusmommy104]

Lol I would love to help everyone with there problems if I could. I would suggest you tell your grandma about it because I'm guessing she is the one who would take you to the doctor. But you can ask your nurse how you could tell her or ask her to be there to talk to your grandma if your scared. If you don't enjoy sex hun don't do it. You don't want an std or to get pregnant your 13 u have your whole life ahead of u. I'm 20 and I have a 1 yr old son and I sometimes feel I was 2 young.

[atreyusmommy104]

And stop drinking!!

[Kezie]

Awww , I would love to have a child , But im thirteen . i dont live with my parents because My mum is unstable - alcholic and my dad is a drug addict , it sucks . i fight like everyday with my grandma . she dosent understand what life is like for me :(
I should tell her soon before it gets to late , maybe tomorrow after school after ive talked to the lady
Man Everything is Screwed up . I Bet your life must be Perfect , i wish i was 20

[atreyusmommy104]

Life perfect HAHA no. my life is far from perfect I don't know who my father is I lived back and forth between my mom and grandma. So I've been there done all that. If I didn't I wouldn't be able to give advise. I bet you don't want to be like your mom do you? Because drinking and having sex a lot can get you where she is at. And you would lose your child as well. And safe sex really isn't all that safe.

[Kezie]

Ohhh , I Dont want to be like my mum . Shes Crazy she says she loves me . i know she does but, if she truley wanted me to live with her she would stop drinking . you lose your Connection with your grandma once you start living with het , she just seams like a parent who you yell and sawear at when she dosent give you what you want . :(

[atreyusmommy104]

I was like that with my grndma when I lived with her. But later on you will cherish her taking you in and helping you. I see my grandma 1 every year or sometimes longer and it kills me. The other day we were taking about my grandma and something came up about when she dies and I started crying because my grandma was more like a mom to me then my mom could ever be. I know its hard to see now but one day you will realize all of this.

[Kezie]

I Do , One day she was having an assma atack I couldent stop crying all night . I thought this is the end , now where am I going to live , I love her so much . And the last thing I said to her that night was can you just get out of my life
:(

[atreyusmommy104]

In the morning when you wake up just hug her and tell her you love her and that your sorry your just a stupid teenager. And don't even wait to tell her about your problem tell her then so she can make u an app. The longer u wait the worse it could be

[Kezie]

Thanks , I will :)
I Think you should be a councilar
your really good

[atreyusmommy104]

Lol OK. Thanks. Let me know how it goes

[Kezie]

ok :D