[confused514]

I have been having sex for a good couple of years now. I've had sex plenty of different ways. But every time I've had sex I've never had an orgasm. My fiancé and I have tried everything. For a long time he thought it was him. Now Im thinking its my bodies fault. I want him to know it feels awesome. Sometimes Ill have feelings like I'm going to but I won't. Im getting very frustrated. Please help me PLEASE!! :(:confused:

[Synnen]

YOu're focusing too much on the goal, and not enough on the journey to it.

If you don't relax about it, it will NEVER happen.

If you really think that it's your body, you need to speak to your gynecologist. Believe me, they've heard it before.

[Choux]

Passion is what you feel in your mind and your personality... your genitals are just where the physical manifestation of passion expresses itself.

I'll just explain this extremely simply... you have to get in touch with your inner femme fatale, discard your "people pleasing" self for an assertive self-loving woman, and go find out how to have an orgasm through masturbation. Teach yourself. Learn to be a strong woman

There are self help books out there you can get and follow the recommendations so you can have orgasms.

Give up on your boyfriend helping you. Too much pressure on your relationship. All the failure is harmful.

YOu can do it, it's not that hard if you really want it!!


Best wishes,