[joyful28]

Am I such a looser?

[redwee74]

I would say not but you did not give us any info. Just keep looking someone will come along and until then have fun and enjoy life. Good Luck and God bless.

[Blaze194]

No you are not a loser, I know many people who have not had a bf/gf before and its not a big deal. It just goes to show that they do not throw themselves at the first available thing.

Trust me someone will come along soon, and it will be when your not expecting it :).

[SimpleguyJoe]

Well are you making sure that your presenting yourself to the dating world? Guys aren't going to just knock at your front door asking if there is a young single woman looking for a date. You have to get yourself out there.

And if you think that it has something to do with your appearance then change it! Start running and doing things that will improve yourself esteem.

So can you also answer us WHY do YOU think you have not had a shot at love yet?

[ZoeMarie]

Like SimpleguyJoe said, you have to get yourself out there. If you're doing that already, you're not a loser, you're just not settling for anyone, which is a good thing. Take your time. :)

[Clough]

Hi, joyful28!

All fine and caring answers above! What sort of things do you like to do? Are you involved in any clubs or groups of any kind?

Thanks!

[siobois]

My sister didn't have a boyfriend until she was 25. I told her she just had to start believing that EVERY GUY wanted her. Within a few months, she had a boyfriend, and they have been together for the past 3 years.

The problem wasn't that she wasn't undesirable. Plenty of guys were showing her attention and were interested, but she couldn't see their interest and kept shooting herself in the foot by being unresponsive.

You have to start acting like you are God's gift to men. Doesn't matter how you look, it is all about confidence.