[IJANAY]

Hello everyone I kind of have this question and I don't know how to go about this situtation, I have a boyfriend and we've datiing for a while and our relationship has been off and on a couple of times once because my boyfriend said he fount this girl that he thought he had really like and loved and then he dumped me for her but he still called me on the phone regularly we cryed on the phone together, at the end conversation he would say I love too! But now he just called me the other day and he tells me this ( that he doesn't want to get caught up and he loved another girl, also why do I like him so much,then he tells me we aren't never going to see each other again because our relationship is long distance) and I just don't how to go about this because I don't want to get hurt again and I don't think I will ever meet another guy like him


So please help me

[tyhirah lyles]

Hey girl,My name is tyhirah and what I think you should do id try to work and make him see from your piont of view but also look at his side to.Understand he's a guy and guys love attention so the fact you are long distance he won't get that from you.and with the girl thing all guys have a problem with that can't be faithful to one girl they have to have them all.But see last month I went through the same thing and after me trying and crying my eyes out and he still wasn't working with me,I just let go.I told him I love him and I'm trying to work but what's the piont working something out if I'm the only one trying.so when you figure out what you want I'll be here but till then I can't be holding on while your pushing me away.And after I said that next week he realized he needed me and he missed me and no other girl will be there for him after he done wrong so manytimes.so maybe this is good you ging throough this because breaking up makes a relationship strong and missing each other makes you relize you really do need each other.Trust me fallow your heart but also think smart.

[demonicevil247]

In this I say guard your heart no matter what you do. You do not want to lose him I understand but sometimes us women need to cry it out and move on. There will be a man out there who will see you for the wonderful person you are and tell you so. He does not know what he has got or missing so he does not deserve you.

[Fr_Chuck]

You know you will never find another like him, until the next one, sorry to sound hard, but he found someone new, and he moved on, it is not likely that you will get him back,

So you live your life, you let time make it feel better and you meet new people and go on with life.

[SimpleguyJoe]

The unfortunate truth is we can't do much to help you only to get you to help yourself. Your would be relationship is long distance even if you were the "perfect couple" this would put a huge strain on your relationship. This guy has already moved on, you need to as well.

You will find another guy and your life is far from over just like Fr_chuck said. It's only a matter of time before out of nowhere another guy just as good as the one you want back so bad will pop into your life. Dealing with a relationships is kind of like going into a bees nest looking for honey sure it's great when you find it but also be prepared to get stung a couple of times.

So my advice to you is to simply move on. Even though it feels like your leaving your entire world behind.