[xXforgottenXx]

OK as you all know on my last question (which was called my girlfriend hates spending time with me!) I'm really P*SSED OFF:mad: and I can't sleep without waking up every 15 minutes:( and I can't take it so I'm just asking should I treat her like cr*p or something so she notice that something's wrong or should I talk to her seriosly... :confused: I don't want to lose her to another boy (wish he is so trying to get her to like him) should I tell this guy to back off she is mad at me because of him she says there just friends but I think sooner or later theyr going to like each other and that will make me wake up every single minute when I'm sleeping... ( I know I sound patetic but this girl means a really big deal to me) please help I'm in a bad position.

Sincerly: xXforgottenXx

[ISneezeFunny]

Why go through all that trouble, just to end up losing someone?

The way I see it, it looks like you're going to lose this girl to this other guy. They say that they're just friends, but you feel like something else is going on... and she starts to spend less and less time with you, etc.

There are two things you can do.

1. You talk to her.

From this, two outcomes:

a. She could care less. You lose more sleep.
b. She apologizes, things get better. (this is the least likely)

Another thing you could do.

2. You just drop her. Don't be mean, don't treat her like crap, just move on, without telling her. Don't call her, don't try to talk to her, just act as if she's a stranger in your life.

From this, another two outcomes.

a. She could care less. In fact, she wanted to break up with you, and now you've made it so much easier.
b. She gets pissed off at you. Moves on to another guy.

Don't lose sleep over this. Be the bigger person, and just move on.

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes, you just talk to her, nothing else does any good.
Treating her bad, grow up, that only pushes her away for sure.
Talking to the other boy, yea right, like he will stop if he wants to.
So in the end you talk, sometimes it works. Other times you have to move on.