[Nitemare]

OK I know this is a bit long but I need help,

I just turned 18 and had 3 girlfriends till now, however where I'm from there is no dating and you should wait for marriage (it's a muslim country) but that has nothing to do with it, people still date and stuff they just stay quiet about it. I broke up with a first one because she was "unfaithful" but my true love was my 2nd girlfriend she was a friend and things went from there, but her family found out and made her stop seeing me or talking to me. I still love her and I'm pretty sure she still loves me. I broke up with the last girl because she was to "controley" I couldn't find a way to get in touch with my 2nd girlfriend till today when I met her cousin and asked for her # but she only gave me an email and I don't know what to write as I don't want to this up, I can't stop thinking about her. What should I write to her ?

[TrueFaith]

I for one can't understand this but I'm not here to juge we all should respect each others customs

But its sad when customs get in the way of things. But it is a huge factor

I say send her an email it can't hurt. Just to let her know you still care about her and who knows maybe in later life something can work out

But as for now. It seem that the parents will rule who she goes out with or who she does not.
There is not much you can do I'm sorry

Exsecpt respect there wishes and let her know you still care

[talaniman]

Don't you have to have permission or something, and will she get in trouble??

If she broke it off because of family pressure before, what's different now??

[Romefalls19]

If she ended it over her family before, I doubt much has changed. I would just leave it alone