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    Oct 14, 2008, 09:58 AM
    Splitting up!
    Hi everyone just a quick post to see if anyone can give me some advice. I have been with my partner for nearly 8 years. We have a 2yr old daughter together and mortgage a house together. The thing is I don't think I want to be in this relationship anymore! Its not that I don't love him its just that I am not in love with him if you get what I mean! We can't spend and real time together because we end up arguing. We had a 2 week holiday in August and I spent most of it snapping and shouting at him. We don't have a sex life because I can't stand him touching me. The big thing is though telling him! I don't want to break his heart because he is a lovely person but at the same time I am being miserable for the sake of it!

    Please please can some one give me some advice as to how/what to say to him?! :confused::mad:
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    Oct 14, 2008, 10:08 AM

    Not really much I can say. If you can't stand him touching you. And if you snap at him,

    I do think the best thing for you both is to split up I'm sure he can't be happy with everything

    There is no easy way to tell someone you don't want to be with them.

    Just tell him
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    Oct 14, 2008, 11:22 AM

    He seems completely unaware of what's happening! He doesn't seem to think that we argue that much and he is happy without a sex life!
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    Oct 14, 2008, 11:23 AM

    Just be honest, dragging it out longer will only prove to bring him more pain
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    Oct 14, 2008, 04:17 PM

    I know some people to find a sex life very important in a relationship. He may just feel so secuer with you.

    Who knows

    But if your not happy and can't stand him touching you then just tell him and get it over and done with


    I think the main thing in all this is your Kid. Don't let Her suffer
    And that's it
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