[bob39]

I have been dating this women for 6 months. Everything is going great, but I can't seem to get her out of my head. I think about her all the time. I have started to second guess myself at every turn. She has been really hurt in the past, and is scared about getting to close. She wants to take things slowly. I am OK with that, but I am in love with this women. I have not told her because I don't want to run her off. I call her about once a day, but I feel like I maybe coming off needy. She has stopped calling me. Should I wait for her to call me? :eek: I am usually not this insecure about a relationship.

[JBeaucaire]

You two aren't together in any official capacity, right? You've known her and dated occasionally over the past 6 months... is that accurate?

If so, this isn't a case of "how do I get this new girl interested in me"... she's been around you long enough to have an idea of who you are, and is remaining distant. You need to pay attention to that.

Relationships HAVE to be two-way when familiarity exists. You CAN pursue a girl who has no real history with you and maybe good things will result. This doesn't sound like the case, she knows enough about you already to have an informed and believable reaction.

She isn't reacting like interested, so you have to believe that. You can continue to ask her out occasionally, but ultimately you WANT to end up with a girl who's thinking about YOU all the time, too, right? Of course you do.

For that to happen, you will need to start dating others.

[Reicheru-006]

If your feeling like your coming off as something, maybe she's giving you a sign to slow it down. She might be getting worried your going to fast and is backing off, causing you to too. Give it a few days to a week of giving her her space. Then tell her she means a lot to you and give her a cute hug or a kiss on the cheak. I'm sure you're relationship will move forward soon or get back on track. ^-^ Sometimes all a chick needs is time.