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    Oct 6, 2008, 09:06 AM
    My boyfriend is my best friend's brother
    I am wondering deeply about this. A couple weeks ago, my best friends brother asked me to our Homecoming dance, I said yes and then soon after he asked me to be his girlfriend. I am wondering if we get any deeper in this relationship, would it ruin my friendship with his sister?
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    Oct 6, 2008, 09:32 AM

    I was in a relationship with my best friends sister in High School. We dated about 2 years 2 1/2 years. We broke up after High School but my friend and I really didn't talk too much after high school because we went to different college's. But he stayed out of the relationship pretty much the entire time. And of course I couldn't complain to him if I was mad or having problems with his sister.
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    Oct 6, 2008, 09:36 AM

    You could talk to his sister.
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    Oct 6, 2008, 06:07 PM
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    Sure
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    Oct 6, 2008, 06:08 PM
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    Do you still talk to him?
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    Oct 7, 2008, 06:59 AM

    Turtle. I don't actually talk to him anymore. But it is not because we are not friends we just went to different college's and then just began to talk less and less. I see him once in a while if I go to my mom's house. We talk but never exchanged numbers. His life and my life are much different now.
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    Oct 7, 2008, 03:31 PM

    Do you still talk to the girl Spitvenom?
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    Oct 8, 2008, 06:49 AM

    To be honest while we were dating I was a controlling A-hole. We have seen each other since then, I apologized to her for treating her that way and she accepted my apology. We even had lunch one time when we happened to see each other just to catch up because I was basically a part of their family from elementary school through High school.

    If I saw her today I am sure we would talk and probably grab something to eat again, although my Fiancée probably would be pretty mad if I did do that.
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    Jun 27, 2012, 11:43 PM
    I wouldn't mind if one of my friends dated my brother. Knowing my friend and knowing my brother, if I thought they were compatible, I'd even be all for it. I'd imagine us being sister-in-laws or something. You should just talk to her and see how she feels.

    (Reminds me of this song by Victoria Justice called BFB. Yes it's Nickelodeon, but she's an OK singer and the song is catchy Victoria Justice - Best Friends Brother (BFB) - Official Music Video - Victorious - YouTube )
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