[kevindegrace]

Hello all. I am pretty new to this and I hope someone can help me out. I am 38 and my girlfriend is 47. We have been going steady for 5 months now. When we first started our relationship we had sex almost every day. Now 5 months later we have sex about once a week if I am lucky. I love sex of course and I feel its a big part of a healthy, lasting relationship. Intimacy is very important. I love my gf so much though and she loves me too. We hold hands,kiss,cuddle up and watch a movie together and other things. She takes sleeping pills to help her sleep when she goes to bed. Maybe its the pills or something. I know shes 47 but I don't think she lost her sex drive cause of her age right? So anyways any help would be greatly appreciated.:confused:
Kevin

[jaime90]

I'm 18, my fiancé is 20, we met each other almost 3 years ago and have been "dating" for almost 2 years. After a year of dating, we had our first kiss, started making out, then started having sex. He's in the military and lives 2 hours away so when I see him, we have sex most every day, recently he told me that he doesn't want to have sex all the time- not because he doesn't enjoy it, but because he misses the time when we didn't have sex every day. Also, he says that he wants intimacy to be more sincere and genuine, not like, "yeah we just do this all the time." Maybe your girlfriend wants to make it more special when you guys do it, instead of a regular thing.