[Alty]

Have fun at the gym Biggie, if that's possible. ;)

[theguywithnolife]

I might get over it.
The girls who's throwing the party is pretty cute though, I don't know.

She's out of my league lol

[Alty]

Out of your league? Honey, there's no such thing.

Believe it or not, many, many, many years ago, that's what guys said about me. They said I was unapproachable becaue I was pretty.

One time, when I was 18 (the drinking age in Alberta is 18) a male friend and I went to a club. I sat there most of the night, no one approached me, I was beginning to wonder if I had a second head or horns growing out of my skull. I asked my friend what the heck was wrong with me, I'd never had a problem getting dates in high school, all of a sudden it was like I had leproscy or something. He said "you're pretty, guys don't think that you'll say yes if they ask you to dance or ask to sit down, people who know you know that isn't true, but these people don't know you."

So, I got of my butt, walked over to a guy, asked him to dance. He looked shocked, but accepted.

Moral: You won't know unless you ask. What's the worst that can happen? She'll say no and walk away, but, she could say yes. :)

[theguywithnolife]

Yes, But at the same time while she's being stalked by a crazy Senior sometimes It gets challenging

It's a long story, but basicially he enjoys "robbing the cradle" and usually only dates "underclassmen" girls.

And no, I'm not trying to make an excuse to say that your wrong

[Alty]

I've been stalked a few times. Been beaten up a few times. You name it, it's happened to me.

Guy, when I met my hubby I didn't want anything to do with him. I was just looking for fun, not love. I tried to push him away so often I'm surprised he kept coming back. I was very messed up, didn't believe that I deserved to be happy. He made me happy, I had to get rid of him, this could only end badly.

Well, he didn't let me dodge him, I was really mean to him, tried everything in my power to get him to realize that I wasn't the girl for him. He stuck through it. We've been together almost 19 years, gulp, half my life.

Challenging isn't always a bad thing. ;)

[theguywithnolife]

:eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

I'm staying out of Canada.

[Alty]

Why? It's not the country that's bad, it was the people I hung out with, events in my younger years, many bad choices. Really, Canada's a nice country. :)

I didn't mean to scare you. Trust me, not everyone has a past like mine, thank goodness. I just had really bad luck and made some really bad choices. Ah, if I could go back knowing what I know now.

Guy, you're young, trust me, you will have things happen to you, you will have choices to make, you won't always make the right ones.

I wish that I had a place like AMHD to go to when I was a teen, could have saved me a lot of trouble and heartache.

Some things you have to learn the hard way. Even if you listen to us oldies, there's no guarantee that you won't get hurt sooner or later. In fact, I can guarantee that you will, no matter what you do.

Learn from my mistakes, but don't be afraid to live your life. :)

[bigbird213]

Guy...

If I'm ever in TN I'll stop by and well go out on the town :p

[Alty]

Way to go Biggie. :)

[theguywithnolife]

Guy...

If I'm ever in TN I'll stop by and well go out on the town :p

Of if I ever have the chance to run up to Connecticut I'll find you

I've acutally got family in Stratford

[bigbird213]

Not too far off from me, unfortunately I'm stuck in Jersey for school right now, but I head home often enough :p

Actually got an invite to the bar tonight, not sure if were going... Either that or watching a movie in my apartment... I kind of voted the bar down since I'm not drinking tonight...

[theguywithnolife]

Ahh, Which Movie?

[Alty]

Hey boys.

Now Biggie, you do realize that Guy can't join you at the bar, he's not old enough. ;)

I however can go to the bar, even if they ID me, which sadly still happens. Jeesh. :(

[theguywithnolife]

Well see it as this

They ID"D my grandma when she went to go buy an alcoholic beverage, While at the same time My 17 year old cousin tried to buy a 18+ Game.. They ID'd him also

Guess who won and lost

What's stopping them from me going in and buying a bottle of Smircnoff?

[ISneezeFunny]

Guy, alty's right.

If you took a look at me, then took a look at all the girls I've dated, you'd go, "what the heck...how'd he get her?!?"... it's the typical response I get whenever I'm out with girls.. . no one's out of your league. Be a cocky jerk, you'll be surprised how many "out of your league" type girls go after you.

[bigbird213]

Sneezy's right too Guy, problem is, being that "cocky jerk" sometimes is a lot easier said then done...

Self confidence is priceless :p

[ISneezeFunny]

Luckily for me, I was BORN a cocky jerk.

When I was younger, our family was very poor... and we came to the states when I was 11, and we had nothing. We shared a 2 bedroom apartment with another family.

One day, my mom told me that I could be anything I wanted to be in the world.

... I decided to be an @sshole.

[Alty]

Sneeezy, you're just a big softie. :)

[theguywithnolife]

I Have Self Confidince, and I'm outgoing
I just chose not to be it around these fab wearing egotistical uptight mofo's

[ISneezeFunny]

Guy, you should, ESPECIALLY around those egotistical jerks... why? Because they're just as insecure as the mexican border.

Alty, you don't get to call me softie unless you start calling biggie "the lil one"