[MC12545]

Hello all. Ive posted blogs before about my relationship status about me and my ex girlfriend. Well Me and my Ex tried to work things out for the 2nd time. We ran into each other in a local bar and we reconnected like the very first time we meet. Well that night she called me crying with joy telling me how exciting it was to see me and how she got butteflys. She said I'm the perfect man for her and she is happy that I'm all hers. I had my guard up because she told me she wasn't feeling me the first time we tried to work it out. Well the calls and sweet text messages kept pouring in and telling me how exciting it is having me back in her life. We had fun and I finally started to open up and giving this one last try. It all seemed perfect. She even stated that her mom was very happy that we where working things out. On my be day she cooked dinner and she surprised me by bringing her mother along. The following week we went to an invite to her grandparents house. I told her that it wasn't such a good idea due to that we are just working things out. She said that she wouldn't bring me along to see her grandparents if the relationship wasn't going to go no where. I felt that she was finally falling in love again like she said.I believed it. I started to feel more and more conftrable around her and finally loving her again. Well last week I asked her how she felt about us. Surprisingly and unexpected she said she is "confused". I was thinking all along that it was going good. She through me off guard. She said that she loves and cares for me but she seems to not get over our past. Our past consisted of a lot of fighting, due to that I went out a lot with my friends. That night we went to dinner to discuss where the relationship was going. She still told me the same thing. She was confused and that it was hard. I told her that I had to move on and that I've tried my best to make it work and that I was done. She cried and said that its not fair how I want to walk away. Well to make a long story short she has been calling me and texting me to see how I'm doing.She called me last Monday and she ended the conversation by calling me baby. We where suppose to go to a trip together but instead she is going with her sister, bro in law and her best girl friend. Im really hurt right now. Honestly I don't know how someone can go through such extream to lure someone in believing they are all into someone and then flake out. Im not upset because she doesn't want to work it out. Im upset at the fact that she tricked me in believing all this love when in reality is was all BS. Why would someone do this? Please help. I'm starting to be confused now?

[ANB428]

Aren't you the one who ended the relationship again?

[MC12545]

Well I had no choice. Why would someone say they love you and then turn around and say they are confused. What can I do in this situation?

[talaniman]

She has tricked you into nothing, its you who keep going back for more, and getting less for your trouble.

You're the very example we use to describe the need for NO Contact!

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ex-245692.html

[MC12545]

talaniman. I learned my lesson. Im convinced that there is nothing there and I will no longer proceed to this malicious game.. im done.I should have listem to you soon. But we live and learn.

[talaniman]

But we live and learn.

That's all that counts.