[yung12345]

It is a boy name justin that like me but I like this other boy named charley but he don't like me but both boys are cute what should I do I really need a opinoin before Monday because I told justin I will tell him on Monday should I wate or go out with justin

[preppygal19]

In my opinion I would go out with justin. Like you said you thin he is cute and if he already likes you then you shouldn't have to worry about him hurting u. Charley may be cute but, if he's not interested then there is no sense. Even if he did say he likes you after you make your decision he would end up hurting you.. But here is some advice that I think would have been helpful when I was younger. You seem like a really sweet girl and a bit young. Yes it is always nice and fun to have a boyfriend but honestly its not the most important thing. Boys a lot of times hurt girls feelings and a lot of the time it can effect the girl in ways that you think it wouldn't.. I wish you the best of luck and hey keep your head up, one day your going to find that dream guy!

[jrsg]

Sounds like you're young, so I wouldn't worry about it much.

Usually, I would advise about commitment, and that sort of thing. But assuming you're young, go out with Justin. Just see what dating is like, and explore the dating world.

Good luck,
And out of curiosity, how young are you?

[JBeaucaire]

Going out with someone should be harmless and you shouldn't allow any sort of "automatic titles" to be applied... going to a movie or a game with a boy doesn't give him rights to the "boyfriend" title, you know?

So, as long as that's clear, date whomever and have a good time.

As for your dilemma, I understand. But you can't ignore viable guys in the hopes the unviable ones will come around to you when they aren't currently interested. You can't live that way.

Later, when dating someone exclusively (bf/gf), you'll also have to practice ignoring the attraction you feel for other boys. That's ALWAYS going to happen, even after you get married. One of the reason you take on bf/gf titles is to promise you WILL ignore those attractions to other boys. OK?

If you DO find your interest in other boys exceeds your interest in your current beau, break it off first. Never be a cheater. And cheating doesn't start with kisses, it starts with chats and lunches. Be careful of that.

Good luck, happy dating.