[cunfuzed]

My custody case is now over. We hve to go back to court to address some specific things, but the custody and visistion part is pretty much a done deal. I am now wanting to move on, and that meand contacting the mother of my ex's other child. He has a sister. And although my ex is not involved in his other child's life, want to contact the mother to see if she is interested in our children meeting. I feel I should attempt at least once. I found her myspace page. This is the only way I know to contact her. Is this a good idea, and if so ,what is the best approach?

[liz28]

It sounds like a good idea but who knows how she might react. She might agree to this or not but I hope she does for the kids sake. The kids have a right and it's good for them to know their brothers or sisters regardless if they live in the separate household. So many adults don't know their kin and it wouldn't be good for them to date unknowingly. I saw it on Dr.Phill, I believe, where two people was going together and several months into the relationship they found out they were actually brother and sister because they had the same father. I don't know how I would react in that situation.

Again,I think it's a good idea and hope she is on broad with it too. It don't hurt to try because if you don't your never know, she might be unware to this matter. Just know she might be against it. It is sad that the father is a deadbeat to this child and sad when a child have kids spreading around. Send her a message introducing yourself and why your contacting her and why you feel the kids should know each other and see what she saids. Good Luck!

[JudyKayTee]

my custody case is now over. We hve to go back to court to address some specific things, but the custody and visistion part is pretty much a done deal. I am now wanting to move on, and that meand contacting the mother of my ex's other child. he has a sister. And although my ex is not involved in his other child's life, want to contact the mother to see if she is interested in our children meeting. I feel I should attempt at least once. I found her myspace page. This is teh only way I know to contact her. Is this a good idea, and if so ,what is the best approach?

You've posted this before and got a considerable number of answers (mine included) - those posts should be combined.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family...ml#post1112465