[kinnso]

Me and my exgirlfriend have done the whole off and on kind of thing, she's the very first girl I could look her in her eyes and tell her that I love her and mean it. Now she lives a distance from me and all I can do is call her or wait for her call. For some reason I just can't get her off my mind no matter what I do. We had that relationship that in the first couple of months we were the perfect couple and nothing was going to tare us apart, but then one day her ex boyfriend sent me the messages that told him that she still loved him and that I was only half the man he was. After that day we had the arguing everyother day and we finally broke up after 10 months. Then we did this she calls me to hang out with her and as friends, but we had sex that same night and then we got back together. Then we broke up again and she started to hang out with another guy all the time, and of course I was jealous. Then one night she started to text me and tell me that she wanted to be with me. Then the same thing happened at her graduation I was there because I was working with her brother in law and I went just as a friend. Once again we ended up together again. I want to know if she's done this thing where were apart for a while again and she doesn't talk to me for a while is she going to do this again and what do I do if she is willing to get back with me.

[kminni01]

Wow... this is tough to answer because your relationship with her is a major roller coaster ride, but all I can think to say is just talk to her about it and try and work things out between you and her so that you're not constantly on and off. I think that if it continues this way that it's just going to be an emotional hell for both of you. Ask her what she wants out of your relationship if you get back together because if she just keeps coming and going I don't think that it will turn out good in the end. I wish you the best of luck!

<3 kt

[chuff]

You are her permanent back up plan. You have never showed her that you will leave and that you will put up with her behavior no matter what so she treats you accordingly. Women want a man, and they use boys that act like this until they find one. You can either stay around and be used or you can man up and leave. The choice is yours.

[talaniman]

Chuff is so right, no self respecting man would let a female use him like this.

Say no to ever having sex with her and take your power back.

Keep it by leaving her alone. Don't fall for an old trick like that.