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    Armada_shred18 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 19, 2008, 02:29 PM
    Orgasm troubles
    OK I have another question that is kind of awkward for me... I've been dating my current boyfriend for 10 months and we are very very close and I love him dearly. We have A LOT of sex.. about 3-4 times a day and its great. I have really good sex drive and I always want to have sex and he does too.. ha. I've only had about 5 really good orgasms but none recently. My point is.. I have to really focus to orgasm and think about it for it to come.. but when I do its always really good. But sometimes I can't focus and he cums before I do then we just kind of stop because his penis goes soft. So.. how can I make myself easier? I enjoy the sex a lot but I want to be able to climax when he does.. what should I think about.. or do?
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    jjwoodhull Posts: 1,378, Reputation: 239
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    Sep 20, 2008, 04:58 PM
    For women orgasms are a more cerebral thing than they are for men. Try more foreplay. Be honest with him about what you like and what turns you on.
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    Sep 21, 2008, 08:06 AM
    Hello there, I feel your pain girl. I found a remarkable product at Walmart made by Lifestlye. I forgot the name, but it is amazing. The guy squirts it on his finger and inserts it into your vagina, and you will feel so hot and tingly. Believe me, it works every time.
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    Sep 22, 2008, 11:13 PM

    My wife is in menopause. We both are 50 years old. During intercourse she is very dry and I feel much problem for insertion into her. Please tell me what liquid or lubricating oil should be used?
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    msnitro2 Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 23, 2008, 08:40 AM
    Hello zahidiph, Try KY Lubricant. There are also many brands at your nearest drugstore or Walmart, which is probably a lot cheaper. Hope this helps.

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