[Vainee]

wellll, I met this girl over the internet on a website called eSpin (kind of like a myspace/facebook site with no customization really) and what caught her eye was my hilarious picture of me with an apple in my mouth and a funny face with it. I checked our her account and she looked pretty cute and was from where I was from, so I asked her for her email.

couple days later of very exciting and fun convos, she asks me to call her. Hell, this girl is hilarious/cute/talkative/sensitive which is my type of girl, so I obviously jumped on the chance to call her =D

I must admit I'm pretty nervous around other girls, but hell our phone conversation was honestly the most un-akward moment I've ever had with a female. Naturally she tells me I can call anytime.so about a week later, of pretty much talking everyday of that week, we make plans to finally meet =P.

And to my great surprise she was more awesome than I had realize, I began to think maybe this girl could be my one. So then 5 days later (again talking normally in those 5 days on the phone) we meet again, this time a lot longer. It was her best friends birthday so she had all her friends, and me lol. Neertheless it was as enjoyable as the previous meeting, and then seemed nice and I felt welcomed. So a couple hours before the movie, of us just walking around and stuff, she holds my hand and I've never blushed so hard in my life =P. we pretty acted like we were already dating, she gave me hugs all the time, put her head on my shoulder etcc, then we see the movie and the same stuff really lol

so another 5 days later (which was today) I rode my bike over to her high school and I admit it wasn't as great as I hoped, since I was walking my bike and my stomach was reallly messed, we couldn't really hold hands and stuff. But nevertheless it was fun =)

and now to the fun part =), when I called her later on today she seemed really normal and during our random conversations about things, she mentions that she doesn't need a boyfriend. I got to say I felt really sad =P. soooo my question is that if she doesn't want a boyfriend why did she hold my hand? And act like we were dating?

another important piece of information is that her boyfriend recently broke up with her (about a month ago) and they went out for about a year. And she said that they were in love.

So help me out fellas? I know it's a long story altogether lol, but id figured id get the best answer if I said everything

[ylaira]

She's still healing but she enjoys your company.

[JBeaucaire]

"Everything is great and fun and relaxed and comfortable with this girl just the way we are. Why won't she let me change it into something more uncomfortable for her?"

Does that put it in perspective? If you two are doing so well, relax. Let go of the need for titles and commitment. Just enjoy each other's company... the thing you already enjoy.

You can do that.

[pinkcelly123]

I actually think she like you.. but is not ready to commit she might just be hoping her boyfriend will come back but I think if they don't get back then you have a pretty good chance.. but knowing she broke up recently should have put you on your guard girls tend to find rebounds after break ups but indeed I think she likes you.. it might take a while.. being that her and her boyfriend where together for a YEAR and only stop talking for a month... remember that.. I'd say go with the flow but don't be surprised if he comes back