[marlasosmart]

Well I'm a pretty girl.. not conceited... but I wish I wasn't preety sometimes because too many guys... plus I perfer guy fwends... I have a boyfriend but he has trust issues.. he doesn't trust me because I have guy fwends.. so he doesn't trust me what do I to convince him to trust meh or do I let the relationship grow mo... but we've been going out for 9 months nw?? :confused: :confused:

[Fr_Chuck]

First please try and use as correct english as possible, this is not a chat site and we do not use text speak here.

Next your problem has nothing to do with your looks, many guys do not like their girlfriends to be or have a lot of guy friends.

[jrsg]

If I were the boyfriend, I would trust you, especially after 9 months. However, I wouldn't trust the guys you were hanging out with. I assume it is the same thing with your boyfriend.

I think you should at least address the issue with him, and let him know that nothing will happen. That you a faitful to him, and don't want to cheat. He will at least be conforted by that little chat.

Also, you could introduce him to your guy friends (if you haven't already) and maybe bring him with you when you hang out with your guy friends. Maybe then, he will see that your friendships with these guys are just that, FRIENDSHIPS!

I hope I helped, and keep us updated.


And... forgive me for asking this...
But does he have a reason to not trust you? Have you ever cheated on him, or anything like that? Or have you ever cheated in the past?
Again, sorry if this offends you, but it would explain a lot if the answer to the above question is "yes."

[GothGirl1771]

ITs not just about being pretty... alot of gals have loads of guy friends... and botfreinds are always worried that their gals will fall for another guy.

[ChihuahuaMomma]

I think the main issue here is that your boyfriend has trust issues? Have you asked yourself why? What type of male friends are these? Have you had a romantic or sexual relationship with any of them? Do you tend to be touchy feely with them?

[411Help]

Let him know that there has to be mutual trust in your relationship in order for it to work.

[JBeaucaire]

Fwends? Twice? Really? Do they teach speech impediments in school nowadays or what?

[IheartEdward]

Gezz, good luck getting a job with that "english".

I think your just looking for attention on this site =].. yes, I think I'm right.